material girl wrote-
Quote:But there are women who dont mind having sex, actually some quite like it so please dont feel that its always a bad thing.
There are various other things mixed up with the idea of "sex".Money for example.Security.A sense of being valued.Influence.All attractive propositions with no relation to anything else.Career choices really.Only of use to skint,insecure women with no influence.A Roman Empress would be disdainful of such things.
You need to define "sex".If I take the position that "getting laid" etc falls well short of any sensible definition it doesn't mean,at all, that I think real sex a "bad thing".It is simply dangerous for men as Empresses usually are.
One can hardly claim intimacy with a lady who one does not share one's thoughts with and this facet of the matter is especially difficult with people of a wide literary experience.Phrases such as "getting laid" and many others of a similar despicable nature are mere boltholes for those who fear such things to escape into. They even claim that priests break their chastity vows in secret because the very idea that they don't leaves them gasping and confused.
And then there is the Dylan couplet from Journey Through Dark Heat-
"I didn't tell her what my private thoughts were
But she had some way of finding them out."
Or the one from If You See Her Say Hello-
"Either I'm too sensitive
Or else I'm getting soft."
And of course,with reference to MG's quote above-
"She fakes just like a woman."
My suspicion is that Mr Dawkins is a "leg over" type.
As de Sade's boiling,vitriolic irony sought to show such attitudes are dangerous to women.He simply took "getting laid" to its logical conclusion to demonstrate the emptiness of it.
If one returns to The Courts of Love and The Romance Of The Rose and chivalry generally one can easily see that the "leg over" mindsets would have been picking turnips and "seeing to themselves" in such a milieux.One had to risk one's life there in order to even approach a Lady.
The "leg over" merchants are not up for that.They demand exactly the right salting of their mashed potatoes or they start shouting and making a big fuss.
Don't try guessing who put such distorted ideas into their little heads.