Men, What Do You Notice First?

Im in a vicious cirlce.

I look miserable because I dont have a man and I cant get one coz the immediate impression of me is one of misery and self loathing.
Tho Im very nice once you get to know me.
Face is a bit plain, hairs not bad, figure is getting bigger so there is more of me to grab on to and i do have a sense of humour.

A guy smiled at me from a car the other day, my usual response is turning away and looking at the floor wondering what he wanted with me.
I dont smile as it doesnt come out as a smile, just a slight grimace.
Only later did I realise it was a really nice thing he did,why didnt I smile!!

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material girl wrote:

Im in a vicious cirlce.

I look miserable because I dont have a man and I cant get one coz the immediate impression of me is one of misery and self loathing.
Tho Im very nice once you get to know me.
Face is a bit plain, hairs not bad, figure is getting bigger so there is more of me to grab on to and i do have a sense of humour.

A guy smiled at me from a car the other day, my usual response is turning away and looking at the floor wondering what he wanted with me.
I dont smile as it doesnt come out as a smile, just a slight grimace.
Only later did I realise it was a really nice thing he did,why didnt I smile!!

Start by going out and doing something nice for yourself that will make you happy!

Anon

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The only thing that is available to me is a big pizza.

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It's not the size of the boobs, it the proportions. Ruben's models had the classic proportions, but did not have the plane-and-angle leaness of today's models.

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After you finish that great pizza, start trying to figure out why you are worried about what that guy wants of/from you, and start thinking what you may want of/from him!! Smile

Anon

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I probably want the same as him, but Id like it for more than one night.

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material girl wrote:

I probably want the same as him, but Id like it for more than one night.

To assume that's as long as he wants it is selling yourself short. You don't know until you try, and no one said you have to give it up until you know the answer in advance!! If he wants a one nighter, tell him to get a hooker!! It seems like you defeat yourself my dear ... I suggest step one is for you to stop doing that if you are.

Anon

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Ahh, Ive just realis what a total moaning mini I am.
Im gona try and stop and flirt a hell of alot more around guys.
That means I have to go out, I didnt socialise at all this weekend!

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material girl wrote:

Ahh, Ive just realis what a total moaning mini I am.
Im gona try and stop and flirt a hell of alot more around guys.
That means I have to go out, I didnt socialise at all this weekend!

That's a girl!! Go for it!

Anon

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first I look at the purse.

After all no matter how attractive a girl might be in any respect if she's not an earner then what's the use?

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If I ever get to talk to a new guy I dont go all giggly like some girls do which I assume is taken as Im not interested therefore they right me off as a boring dog.
The reality is that Id prefer to get to know whether someone is worth flirting with and getting giggly with first.
Im not saying im gods gift to men but it just takes alot for me to be interested in someone.
When I look around at some horrid women that are attatched/married it makes me think there is hope for me yet.

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Just don't look too hard at the princes to which they are married, or one might begin to see the inner frog.

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Rrrrrrrribit!

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Stray Cat wrote:

But you think she looks attractive. What is it about her appearance that's likely to catch your attention first/foremost?

I notice whether she smokes or not. Could be the most attractive woman on the face of the planet - if she's smoking, I wouldn't notice anything else.

Hmmm, I take that back. I'd probably notice if she had 2 heads.

Like this, for example:

http://teacherweb.com/CA/SantaBarbaraJuniorHighSchool/Kluss/tortoise2heads.jpg

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Confession:

Really, I check out her ADAM'S APPLE.

If it's big and bulging enough, bobbing as she orders a Venti Mocha Late in a husky voice, it's on. I set my sights and go in for the kill.

High five dudes! Air guitar, etc.

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material girl wrote:

If I ever get to talk to a new guy I dont go all giggly like some girls do which I assume is taken as Im not interested therefore they right me off as a boring dog.
The reality is that Id prefer to get to know whether someone is worth flirting with and getting giggly with first.
Im not saying im gods gift to men but it just takes alot for me to be interested in someone.
When I look around at some horrid women that are attatched/married it makes me think there is hope for me yet.

Material Girl

There's more than hope for you, there is a demand for you out there.

I've been around the block enough times to know this.no matter what my physical appearance has been at any given moment in life, there's been a guy that's been turned on by it. That is enough in itself to make one believe in their hearts they are beautiful and desirable.

I've been underweight, overweight and just right. Lifted weights and sat on my duff. Been brunette and redhead, curly or straight, short or long. Worn glasses and not worn them. I've bitten my nails, and had perfect manicures. It doesn't matter, you are always someone's ideal woman.

If a man, regardless of if he's 18 or 81 looks at me like I'm a troll, I just feel sorry for him, because he doesn't know what he's missing.

If a man anywhere from 18 to 81 sends out the vibes that he finds me attractive, I feel sorry for him, because I'm taken.

Actually no, if they're not being overtly flirtatious, I have had some of the best conversations of my life with people like this.

Oh - and don't worry about those horrid women. They aren't worth it. You have so much more to offer.

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Chai Tea, I love what you said here.... :wink:

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Btw, it looks like "face" is the attribute that seems to get the most attention. So, take care of your face!

Now I'm going to trot over to my boobs thread and see how things are .... ahem....developing over there.

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Thanks Chai, thats put me in a good mood.

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