No problems. I'll try my best to express myself here, but this thread really is best expressed with a laugh!
I am wary of the word LOVE being thrown around. Bartikus made it clear what his intentions were - to use LOVE within his religious framework.
I know what it means to be manipulated by LOVE. To hear mental ideas and 'heartfelt' expressions of LOVE which only serve to twist the actual facts and warp life.
As far as my sense of what love is and where it comes from - Questioner came the closest in explaining it. I Don't know. It is not a thing, an idea, an action, a right or a priveledge. I can't put my head around it. It is something I am actively learning and exploring every day.
Boom, I do get where you are coming from and see a lot of value in putting an emphasise on daily actions of LOVE. IMO, there is a level of learning and skill concerning experiecing love. I think it is somewhat dangerous, though, to confine such a large country as LOVE to scientific explanations and brain chemistry.
I also think it is dangerous (and now I am not address ya Boom) to categorize LOVE within subject-object. This whole idea of GOD being the source of love, or a PARTNER being a source of love, or anything at all really burns me.
I wish I was a better writer, painter, sculpter, whatever so that I could show yall what love is to me. The best I can do though is live and learn and hopefully I have gotten across the good feelings this thread actually gives me.
"Love is the expression of all feelings". I like that quote; especially bc I grew up quite neurotic and found showing emotion so difficult for so long.
In that line, hate fits in there. The first man I felt warm and fuzzy towards was a man who allowed and tolerated my hate.
Thanks.