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Wed 21 Dec, 2005 10:30 pm
I have been having a debate about this for some time with friends, and arguments with the fiance.
When he visits his favourite forums and if he has been away for awhile from them, he is often asked of his whereabouts. No, these are not dating forums but those of general interest, politics and the like.
Much to my amazement, I have read some of his posts and when questioned of his absence by a certain female forum member, he replies he is busy with a "close friend." No, not "girlfriend" or "fiancee".
My fiance doesn't live in my city and we have to travel great distances to spend time together.
I am puzzled as to why he does this. Is this to tell her it is none of his business or is he trying to keep it vague and ambiguous, as she lives closer to him. He says they have never met and it is, after all, just a bloody Internet forum.
Any thoughts on this?
I think he's decided it's none of her business. Sounds kind of like me, actually.
My thought is that you should ask him.
I dont think this warrants your suspicions unless its part of more obvious trend.
I agree with the previous posters.
Y'know, I don't even know where my bf spends his time when he is on the internet except by what he chooses to tell me. Same goes for me. I will tell him if he asks, but what I do with my own time is mainly my business. We operate by good faith most of the time.
Do you trust your bf overall? Could this be something else you are worried about...? Perhaps the strain of a long distance relationship? Just guessing.
In this day and age you really need to be able to approach the man going to MARRY. Even if it's nothing and you get busted for not trusting him then you could talk to him about that. I'm a guy and before I marry someone (a girl) I want no secrets. Are you going to walk down the isle suspisious?
As Mr. George Michael said, you gotta have faith.
Why do you distrust him if he WON'T give this detailed information? I don't understand your problem. He doesn't want to give out real information about himself. Now, if he was saying he was single and looking you might have something to be concerned about but it sounds like your guy just wants to be anonymous and remain completely so.
Sounds like he's keeping himself to himself and not giving too much away.
I think that's a good thing - wish I was more like it!
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