Momma Angel wrote:Hello Green Witch,
Let me ask you a question. This may be true in your case. If this is not the case for partyjohn, why should you try to change him? Isn't that kind of like forcing your beliefs on him? I don't think partyjohn, myself, you, or anyone else has the right to tell another they are wrong for their beliefs, do you?
I'll answer too. I'm not trying to dissolve PJ's faith, I just want him to examine it. Read my other posts on this thread and I think you will see that. No one should just believe what people tell them - that's dangerous. If PJ has had personal experiences that have lead him to his faith that is fine, but he seems to be getting his belief system from outside sources. He could question and examine those sources and still continue to believe as he does, but I want him to do the thinking part first.
Here's another example: I believe I have seen fairies - do you accept my word and now also believe in fairies or would you like to see more proof? I think if PJ's preacher told him he has seen fairies, PJ would start believing in them. That is how we end up with fanatics, fanatics are scary. People who have faith, but understand the importance of doubt are not the problem. I'm saying "don't just follow orders". Go back to my example of Muslims and bombs or Nigerians and free money offers for more elaboration.
Now I'm off to feed the dogs...