I saw Brokeback Mountain earlier today & am still mulling over my (very intense) reaction to it. To me, it was a desperately sad story of wasted lives & lost opportunities. Ennis, because of his deprived & lonely childhood could almost be described as emotionally stunted - unable to fully accept the one person (Jack) who knew & understood him better than anyone & responded to him with deep compassion & unconditional love. The tragedy was that Ennuis didn't fully realize this until after Jack's premature death. In a sense, the tragedy was that they were mis-matched: Jack being more open, easy going & optimistic, while Ennuis was fearful, repressed & unable to risk losing "respectability".
This extract from a review I just found puts it much better than I can:
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link to complete TimeOut review below)
Of course, the fact that Jack & Ennis were gay, living & working in a very
male environment (first meeting in 1963), made it even harder for Ennis to even
consider a proper relationship with Jack. How could he, when he wasn't able to properly accept
himself? The memory of the two old (gay) men from his childhood & how they cruelly they'd been treated by small town community made such an option impossible. That wasn't going to happen to him!
The evocative settings & locations: Even the early Brokeback Mountain locations seemed dark, depressing & rather menacing to me. The various interior settings in the film seemed (intentionally) mean, impoverished & claustrophobic. Just like Ennis's life. The scene where Ennis explores Jack's sad little childhood bedroom (after Jack's death) was heart-breaking.
But there was a hint of optimism or hope toward the end of the film when Ennis agreed to attend his daughter's forthcoming wedding ... after quelling his usual dismissive reaction to the possibility of "closeness" or connection. It seemed that, by acknowledging to himself that he
had loved Jack, that he was able to show & accept love (a little bit!) for the first time.
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http://www.timeout.com/film/83318.html