HA! referring her to Merry Maids...
I should have done that actually.
So, what I told her was that ( and i stretched it a bit)
That we were moving, and the commute as it is right now was almost 30 miles and that was getting hard , and from our new place, it was going to be longer then that and I would have to increase her rates to cover that.
I said, "I know you are on a tight budget and really need the help, but more then that you need it affordable, and I cant give that to you from my new home. On top of that, I will be so far away, the chances of me NOT arriving on time, due to traffic , my bad timing, construction or waht ever... like I tell you I will, would go up and I would be unreliable to you. And that isnt fair either.
So, Im giving you a good amount of notice so you have time to find a new worker.
Then i offered to keep this saturdays appt.. but she wrote back and said se had arranged for a service to come out so I didnt have to keep it.
yeah.. i stretched the truth.. im bad..
but it worked