what would you, as a woman recommend?

Did you google "women's forums" or something like that? Try it.

I did, but the thing is, most of the forums are with men as well. and I don't mean to sound crappy or snooty but I just want to find some females that can relate, it'll be easier that way

Tried women only forums?

Have you tried specifically searching for what you want to talk about? If it's something like pregnancy, then there are sites with very few men who visit, let alone post. No

In a pinch, you can posit your question right here, and request that you are looking for feedback from females. We have a lot of good advice giving women on this site!

Take a look at some of the "Relationships and Marriage" threads, and you will see what I mean.

This forum below has a place called "the Ladies Room", you will have to join the forum in order to be able to see it on the home page and then PM the mods to request access.

http://www.countryconceptsllc.com/forum/

I have found some of the feedback from women here to be totally against the grain of what they would say if "menfolk weren't around." So I understand your concern. A lot of women seem to put on airs here and develop a personnae that they think is attractive. to men. Sometimes I wonder if the women who really work it are even women. It is very likely that at least one or two of them are pretenders.

Even lesbian forums have guys infiltrating pretending to be woman. Too bad the PM is restricted here that is the best way to have a woman to woman conversation.

Post under Original Poetry. They'll never find us there.

Sarah

HAHAHAHA!!!!

Good one, roger!


Seriously...I haven't found the women on this site to be pretenders at all. (Where'd THAT come from?!) Except now I will admit I'm looking at twin_peaks_nikki a little differently.

So...what's the problem, Leggsly? You'll get lots of good female feedback here. Just ignore the rest.

I am a lot more intuitive than most people. of course, I could be wrong. If you are saying that of all the people who have posted here, none are pretending to be "something" she or he is not, I know you are mistaken.

Perhaps, you are right about "the lifers." It is hard to maintain a character over a long time. But I can guarantee that I could log on under a new name, create a character and you would never know it is me.


Anyway, look at me anyway you like. My big problem is that I just say what comes to mind, that and the fact that I am certifiable.

I feel sure you are correct that some may be pretending to be something they aren't. That happens in all groups.

You don't have to create a new identity here to prove a point, though. I believe you.

And I hope you believe me when I say that a good many of us here are fairly transparent. Read my profile. It's all there.

What would I as a woman recommend re what?

We are fairly forthright women on this website, over a day or two or three. There are some men who pipe up with wisdom from time to time, sometimes in odd forms. We're pretty open here.

If indeed you want to speak of various medical matters, just go to that forum...

Hi, I'm sorry... I kind of just ditched everyone and didn't even respond to what you offered.
I do appreciate your suggestions, and I've taken them into account.
I guess for me, at present what I'm facing is something that my friends who know me wouldn't be able to give me objective advice and I want to make a decision that isn't ruled by a biased opinion. Anyway, thanks for the support

Leggsly, did you try googling for a forum based on your specific need?