opposite sex friends
I truly believe in what Noddy 24 noted. There is alot of good advice in her statement. DanielleJean, i would love for you to think about this and everybody with a thought, do reply.
My childhood sweetheart & I said we would be friends from day #1. We dated for 2 years and that was that. We have both married and are with children (me 9 years & him for 4 years) yet we both still have a passion for each other as friends. He is like your best girlfriend but is a boy.
With a honest hug, smile, & chat we'd go on our merry way with peace in our hearts when seeing each other rarely over the last 10 years.
We have recently exchanged phone numbers and chat and I feel I have found the long lost friend and piece missing from me. My husband knows him and is indifferent and his wife is the same. They do not care that he and I chat b/c we are nothing but friends. We can laugh and joke knowing that we are both there for each other and love our spouses even more than ever b/c we are both glad we are who we are with.
it all goes down to....if there are people in your life, be them the same or opposite sex, and you cannot get these people out of your heart or your head, you need to seek them out & find peace with yourself. Life is only but so long and we all need friends (the more, the better) b/c there is power in numbers and more hearts to listen to you when you are down.
I just feel that GOD PUTS EVERYBODY IN YOUR LIFE FOR A REASON AND YOU SHOULD LOVE EVERYBODY EVERYDAY NO MATTER WHAT B/C YOU NEVER KNOW WHEN YOU MAY NOT HAVE THEM. I have heard that repeatedly throughout my life and believe it with all of my heart!
daniellejean, can could still be friends with him. men hate that statement but an occasional e-mail or chat every once in a while may be good for both of you. just wondering. this is my situation, and just trying to help you. GOOD LUCK IN WHATEVER YOU CHOSE