Stevepax wrote:McGentrix wrote:Any idea how long the wait to adopt a child is Stevepax? Any concept of what families incapable of bearing children have to go through?
Any time you want to adopt achild, there are thousands of special needs kids just waiting for someone to step up ... RIGHT THIS SECOND! Not to mention the thousands worldwide that need parents RIGHT THIS SECOND. There's no need to create any more unwanted children.
You're right, there are thousands of "special needs" kids waiting for someone to adopt them.
And your point is?
It's (your point) difficult to fathom, but it seems that you are somehow suggesting that childless couples should adopt "special needs" kids rather than argue against abortion.
Now, we all now that "special needs" is a euphemism for "difficult," or "trouble."
This is not to say that these poor children don't need loving families, because surely they do and God bless those who find it in themselves to brave the problems associated with a "special needs" kids and adopt them, but is there any reason to implicitly sneer at couples who choose not to adopt "special needs" kids?
On the one hand we have individuals who have no problem with fertility (except that they
are fertile) whom stevepax feels it is perfectly OK for them to end the lives of their "unwanted" children.
On the other , we have infertile couples who, unless they are quite rich and look to overseas opportunities, are never going to have but one adopted child, and who seem to be considered by stevepax as somehow shallow because they do not want to to take their first (and only) step into parenthood with a child that, tragically, comes equipped with a load of baggage.
Arguing that abortion somehow addresses the issue of
unwanted children is amazingly facile.
Every healthy, white baby born in America is
wanted, and if born to a reluctant mother, will be adopted in the blink of an eye.
The
unwanted children are non-white, disabled or older than two years of age.
Since there are hundreds of thousands of such unwanted children, it would seem that abortion ain't doing the trick.
It would seem that you pro-abortion mavens (particularly those of you who predicate your position on the issue of "unwanted children") need to do a better job in making sure that the women who are likely to give birth to an "unwanted baby" make the
choice for abortion.
The bottom line is that regardless of whether one is Pro-Life or Pro-Choice, an argument that the world needs abortion because it doesn't need any more "unwanted babies" is ludicrous.