@aidan,
aidan wrote:
Quote:I'm confused about your statement about "Christian" being used as a derogatory term.
Does this exchange help clear up what I may have been referring to?
plainoldme said:
Quote:So, anyone who needs God, god or a goddess to be a good person and to have a life of meaning, is not and has none.
To which you responded:
Quote:I'd agree mostly on this
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So a person who identifies as a Christian has to hear many, many times and over and over that they are somehow lacking - they're either delusional or weak or insane....you name it- I've heard it right here on this forum - to the point where I feel that because I believe in God, I could claim membership in a reviled and stereotyped minority just by calling myself a Christian.
1) The quote you provided doesn't use "Christian" as a derogatory term.
2) If the only thing keeping you from murdering, raping, and thieving is a belief in a god, then you are dangerous and morally fragile. The statement I agreed with targets an individual that NEEDS the existence of god for them to behave morally. This is far from labeling Christians in a derogatory manner.
3) Christians are not a minority.
aidan wrote:
Quote:If your morals have a Christian basis, but the construction of Christian morals were in fact copied from previous pagan cultures, then aren't your morals then pagan in their foundation? Continue to repeat this process, and at some point, no moral has any real religious foundation, just a social one.
If all of these things came naturally to people, why then did they need to be written down at all- anywhere - from the Book of the Dead to The Bible?
Writing things down is for convieniance and quality control. It is simply a departure from the oral tradition. The Bible didn't "need" to be written down, as much writing the Bible down was inevitable as many stories were being written down. Why does Huck Finn need to be written down?
Social behaviors don't need to be written down. We learn most from practice, not having them read to us or us researching them.
aidan wrote:
And basically you're making my point. Since people have kept written records, religion has been at least a subset of their social structure. In other words - it just 'is'. Why?
It's a cultural artifact, nothing more. We vote on Tuesdays in the USA, even though the reason for voting on Tuesday is completely irrelevant in modern times. Some traditions continue with no good reason at all.
aidan wrote:
Quote:The teachings of Fred Rogers are a good tool for guiding positive human interaction and behavior as well. Mr Rogers doesn't have to be a deity for it to be valid, and I can evaluate on my own whether his message is useful or not

Diest - you may be too young to know this but guess what? Fred Rogers was an ordained Christian Minister.
I am very aware of this fact. It doesn't not alter my point. Do you believe that it does, or were you simply offering up that info as fun trivia?
aidan wrote:
Quote:The story of Jesus can be profound and meaningful without having to be true. As an atheist, I can learn the story and find value in it as a piece of fiction just as much.
I also said that - two or three pages back:
Quote:I think that's where Christ's lessons are good ones for all of us- maybe the atheist could try reading the Bible for the main idea - even if they don't believe in a god.
I remember you saying this, but I'm making sure that the point is understood from both directions. If you are saying (and I agree) that an Atheist can find a useful message in the Bible even if they don't believe in it, then you must also acknowledge that the believer in the bible must additionally be able to appreciate the same message in the Bible as a work of fiction. In the end, the message doesn't grant validity to the claim of the god, only the validity of the message itself. A believer can't use the Bible's message as follows: You agree with this message? Well then you must believe in the Bible's accuracy.
aidan wrote:
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Additionally, you've actually described humans in a way which at surface level seems accurate, but doesn't square with history or even our actual nature as an animal. We are not eagles, we do not survive on on our own. We do not thrive as individuals. As animals, we aren't particularly strong or fast. As for senses, we do not have the best eyesight, hearing, smell, or tactile ability. We are social animals.
Our fit to our environment and our ability to survive (and thrive) as a species so long has come from our cooperative social behaviors, not our ability to survive on our own.
Food for thought, think about other animals. Where do you see the selfishness you describe as an evolutionary advantage?
Right, but we have a long history of tribalism. That's the level at which the selfishness becomes an evolutionary advantage. And even the fact that it is beneficial to be a member of a tribe as opposed to a lone and isolated individual is oftentimes more based on what is most advantageous to an individual rather than an inborn or innate desire.
The inborn an innate desire is to form tribes/groups/communities. That is the part you're missing. It is not that one group finds conflict with another, it is that we are instinctively drawn to form groups in the first place. Our nature is to be in a a group, and to be functional in that group. That is how we survive and thrive. We have to learn selfishness, that is not our nature.
aidan wrote:
So I go back to the fact that to do unto others as you'd have them do unto you is usually not innately or naturally out of the 'goodness' of anyone's heart- it's a survival mechanism within groups but often not outside of a group.
I see this as dismissive. You are downplaying why and how we end up in groups in the first place and by virtue of being in a group what social interactions are inevitable to produce success.
aidan wrote:
You can even see it here, now and today- 'This one is my friend (member of my tribe) so I'll treat them this way' - but this one is not my friend (member of my tribe) so what happens to them is not my problem.
Quote:Many animals are probably better at it's application than humans are.
Within established packs - I believe that. Outside of established herds or packs? I'd like you to show me that.
How about symbiotic relationships between different species? You know small bird pick food out from between the teeth of some crocodile's teeth?
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