Day-4
trial 2 of hands off mommy-
We scooted ourselves to the park for a play date.
Turns out I had the wrong park..
but that is ok.
There was a large group of kids at the park we went to anyways and about 4 mommies all on the sidelines.
So, I unstrapped Jillian and busied myself with her stroller while she toddled off to play.
I held her hat in my hands so I wouldnt get nervous ( ohhh boy im a dork...) and just watched.
There was a mommy of 2 sitting next to me so I just started talking to her about what I was feeling.
How i felt like I needed to monitor and be the safety queen of everything she did.
She not only related , but was able to laugh at me and with me in just the right places.
She was a mommy of 2 boys. One 2 1/2 and another 14 months.. talk about having her hands full!!
So between her and I sharing the safety police stories and randomly chasing our kids, I got a good idea of what it was like to just let her play and an even better idea of how to not be so freaky.
I am going to try to get a group of mommies together for a play date at this park for every friday.
This is pretty neat.
And watching her play was just as fun.She even got into a 'baby fight'
OK- so am i wierd to have enjoyed watching that? ;-)
It was the typical no I WANT that toy pull and tug.. but cute as hell.