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Basics to a relationship

 
 
Deler
 
Reply Sun 16 Oct, 2005 11:47 am
I wanted to know what you think is essential to bring into a relationship and what a relationship can do for you. Lets say the world you live in offers no sort of stability, the problems you've built up over years are turning to face you and you want to start a new life with some love involved. You know what needs to change in your life but you just aren't certain how to change it, the life you live is full of problems and viewing it as a positive place is rather difficult. Progress you make at improvement is easily removed and all the bad in your life quickly comes back. You know that someone to love would improve your life by leaps and bounds but your affraid of bringing your problems into a relationship. What would you say is important before starting a relationship with someone
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Reply Sun 16 Oct, 2005 12:03 pm
I think this is a good question, and I was going to start a thread about it myself. I'd love to get more input from people with more experience than me in this regards.

There is so much we don't get taught!
To a certain degree, I think this is an individual question. We all have to balance who and where we are at any given time, and what we want.

But there are basics. I want to hear what y'all have to say.
<<sitting down to listen Smile
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Reply Wed 19 Oct, 2005 11:00 pm
i dont know if i have interpreted your question correctly...

A strong relationship with a supportive partner, should ideally, help solve problems or at least help alleviate the situation.

I dont think you should hesitate to get into a relationship just because you have problems. We fight our own battles and we can go home to find a warm place and person to curl up,

In my experience: my relationship certainly helped me face my old problems. But it brought in new ones !! I had gotten used to my old monsters (violent fights at home between my parents etc)...here came new ones. But yes, the love in the relationship, despite all odds, certainly helps you view life posivitvely.
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