I think this is a good question, and I was going to start a thread about it myself. I'd love to get more input from people with more experience than me in this regards.
There is so much we don't get taught!
To a certain degree, I think this is an individual question. We all have to balance who and where we are at any given time, and what we want.
But there are basics. I want to hear what y'all have to say.
<<sitting down to listen