Mother in Law chapter II

Oooh, I like how Osso said it.

erdoc, if I may, I'd like to point out something from your brief foray onto A2K:





So which was it? Did you just happen across it or were you directed here?

Three posts and a significant inconsistency -- but ya know what, that's really common online. It took me a couple of times but (sorry old timers, striking this note again) I usually just assume that what someone is saying is true, because what's the alternative? Very hard to know in any definite way one way or the other, and if they ARE telling the truth...?

This is not to say that I don't have my suspicions (like, when I first saw it, whether someone actually just "happened" across this thread, just for example), or that I go around handing out my credit card info. But then what? I'd much rather help someone who needs help than kick someone who's down.

Nice resource, sunlover.

Wolfie, there goes another 'good' doctor who's arrogance made him reply, knowing that those of here who love you would thank him for telling us all about you and your criminal ways.

Tico, loved the way you had fun with erdoc's threatening statement as follows:

(the resident involved or someone who knows him/her might recognize him or her and the facts of the case as it was described -four years ago, Texas, 34 year old father of two with possible bowel obstruction- and take issue with the fact that the facts of a case in which s/he might have ended in him/her being accused of malpractice are being discussed publicly).

Tico responded: This shows how pathetically seriously erdoc takes himself. Of course, he is a Doctor.

Just another, sort of pitiful, part of Life's Rich Pageant.

interesting..

ill be back to shred this apart in a while..
;-)

Oh, good.

Good that you'll be back.

Ooh. this is gonna be good!

Personally I wouldn't bother to waste my time on responding to him/her/it.

Nothing it has said has changed my opinion of you, and I would imagine that goes for everyone else.

If you respond,
a) You will be lending credibility to this unknown person (who may after all, be a 14 yr old mummy's boy from Georgetown, who jacks off to this sort of stuff) and give a signal for a full scale battle to begin,

b) "It" will be able to dissect your response very carefully and at it's leisure, and hit you at a time of it's choosing. This will cause more upset and result in another response from you, and on and on, a bit like an evolution thread, when you end up with twelve quote boxes on any one response.

and c) Do you really need to be channeling your energies into this negative sort of thing at this moment in time? Just to satisfy some judgemental sadist?

I don't care what this tosspot thinks, however, I DO think it would be a good idea for you to IGNORE him/her/it completely. That will upset him/her/it much more than you playing into it's hands by getting mad.
You wouldn't want to give it a possible bonus trouser bulge at your expense, now would you?

I think that challenging this oaf might make her feel better...but that's up to her.

Erdoc,

It is obvious to me that you have very little info under your belt about what is going on here, the purpose of this thread and what is being said.
Your so called educated opinion SHOULD TELL YOU that my story of what happened with me IS incomplete. It is funny to me to watch you try to draw conclusions and pick " facts' out of a story as vague as mine and claim to know what should/ should not have happened. But your the doctor.. Such a presumptious stand point you have..
Humorous actually.. Anyone with half a brain can read what I wrote and know that it is vague, inconclusive and missing about 90% of the content..

Details are not important , neither is the story for that matter. I approached it simply because it is a barrier to finding housing and if there was anyone who could have offered any help, they needed to know that. People needed to understand that we are not just ' staying' here because we want to.
Using the prescription pad for my own use? No.
If you had an educated opinion about what was going on you would have known when and what my addiction entailed. but.. since you don't.. it is just another example of your arrogant attitude and judgemental standpoint.

I can also tell , you have no idea what it is like to live with an alcoholic.
You have no idea what it is like to live with someone who is grieving, but drunk.
You have no idea what it is like to live with ' in-laws' essentially..
Until you do, you have no grounds to stand on to attack or defend my position.
Until you have to break in a door to check on your mother in law who is so drunk and passed out she cant even HEAR you knock.. just to make sure she is alive, you have no idea.
Until your family falls apart watching something unfold such as a prolonged suicide, you have no idea.
Until you are put in a position where all of your efforts, your emotions, and your support is **** on by someone everytime they take a drink, you have no idea.
Step away and gain perspective.
Mooching?( edited comment )
If you had any idea what was going on in this house, you would know that mooching doesn't even apply. Not only is there a financial agreement that is currently paying of her mortgage early.. there is a home/land value 'agreement' as well. Stained concrete floors, re painting ( entire home inside and out) removing old carpet, tile, floor boards, landscaping.... on and on and on the list can go for what we are doing on top of a financial agreement to 'give back' for staying here.
Mooching? your a little man and quite ( edited ) to jump to that conclusion.

People mooching off an alcoholic.. that is a laugh actually..

Next time why don't you take the time to make an educated statement about a situation before you open your mouth. Oh wait.. your a " doctor" that is outside of your scope. ;-)

the example I am setting for my daughter? Again, you know nothing of the situation you speak of .
The more you open your mouth the more you sound like the kind of " doctor" that looks at his nurses like they are ****. They are lower then you and are not worth your time. In your eyes they are high paid diaper changers. You sound like the kind of doctor who is intimidated by his nurses simply because we only have 1/3 the education YOU do and yet we can do the job just as well. ( edited )

You tell people to step away and gain a little perspective?
Follow your own advice.

i love strong women and shewolf, you are one strong woman!

I saw the dalai lama yesterday.

( im still giddy about that.. )

Well done, Shewolf!

Off to read your dalai lama post....

great point.
I just saw this..

mr doc DID specifically say " delete that post"
something , someone who just " passed by" wouldnt focus on.


interesting....
i hope you are not right..

Go get 'im, Shewolf!

Bite him where it hurts most!

(That would be in the ego.)

Well said.

I just read your new sig line, She.

WTG,BEAN!!!

it was the cutest thing too. :-)
she strived so hard to make her little words clear to me i think i scared her with my reaction. hehe

it seems like, more and more lately, she is replying to comments . her fumbled phonics are clearer and clearer..
one day , the flood gate with open and it will be

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Shewolf, I hardly know where to start, having read this whole thread just now.

First, erdoc is a complete idiot. You didn't even mention the horror of your past in any of these posts, but I remember them (vividly) from your previous posts.

Let me say that if erdoc had lived through even half the things you did, he'd be a RAVING LUNATIC. To make such a sweeping judgment of you while knowing virtually nothing about what sort of person you really are makes me fear for the welfare of his future patients.

He hasn't a clue! I must reiterate... you are a stronger and BETTER person than he will ever be. He has no idea what it was like to grow up as you did. He would have collapsed & gone utterly insane, and you did NOT. He clearly hasn't the slightest idea of the meaning of "a difficult life." He made me really, really angry.

Cripes, we all make mistakes, that's what makes us human! You made a mistake, trying to do the RIGHT thing and live up to the ideals of your profession, and you've paid for it, and received a great deal more punishment than you ever deserved. In my opinion you were treated extremely unfairly, and a felony charge for this action is absolutely ridiculous!

I've had many, many jobs that did not do any sort of background check. Many small businesses cannot afford them and don't really even care, as long as you are honest, dependable, and hard-working, which you obviously ARE. Focus on that!

You'd be a GREAT EMPLOYEE and any firm should be happy to have you. That's what really matters. And that's what you need to keep foremost in your mind in your job search (in my opinion).

My heart goes out to you, Shewolf. I really care for you. PM me if I can help in any way, large or small.

<Scratching behind those big soft wonderful fuzzy ears>

You mean he'd start raving?