hey
im not sure how suited i am to giving advice, as im relatively inexperienced in relationships as a whole lol but what i will say is of my four relationships, three of them have begun as a result of an encounter online.
(the fourth is a second try for myself and my first bf who i met on the internet)
i used faceparty - at first it wasnt to meet men, in fact that has never been my intention but it just happened.
after browsing through i have recently discovered that people of all ages use this site, and many dont just sell themselves, you can view profiles of the people and find out about them.
of course there are abusers of the profile, those who have links to indecent websites, but you can generally tell who they will be in the case of women.
www.faceparty.com
there are people there of all ages up to 60+ from what i have discovered
be yourself, but dont put yourself under threat by exposing too many personal details, and browse to your hearts content.
there are so many people out there who are just looking for a bit of companionship, which may and inevitably does develop into something more over time.
good luck!