your partners sexual fetishes!

I'd laugh my butt off.!!!

yeah, but i cant laugh about it! its making me feel ill, its so wierd. ive never known this, and he's usually so open with my about sex, etc. After being together nearly 2 years this is really hurting me!

Hey...to each their own.

Talk to them about it, ask them about it if you're curious. If not, then let them be, it's not harming anyone and they haven't taken the initiative to bring it into your own bedroom (they fantasize about it on their time), so no harm done.

If you're hurt over him not telling you, then maybe he's embarassed or ashamed. Don't condemn him for it - that'll be a sure fire way to make him back off from being open.

Maybe it's just curiosity.

thanx for your replies. we've talked about it+i understand it abit more now!

Hey, you have been with this guy for 2 years. Can't you talk to him? Bring it out into the open. Tell him that you saw the material, and say how you felt about it.

Many people are aroused by, shall we say, unusual sexual practices. Some people are turned off by the thought of them. It is really up to the individual.

Now, there is also a big difference between looking at that sort of stuff, and acting it out. He also apparently keeps the material to himself. So he is not asking you to bring a chicken into your bed.

Many people are repulsed by these unusual sexual practices. Don't think that I am making light of your reaction. I can certainly appreciate how these sorts of things might very well make some people queasy. Just bring it out into the open, and you will feel better for it.