Is it possible to love two girls at once?

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I'm just curious as to if anyone has any experience (girls or guys) with this and if they think it's possible.

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[+5] - Miss L Toad - 02/14/2014[quote]Is it possible to love two girls at once?[/quote] Jimmy, who's the other girl? It better not be someone I know.
[+3] - Setanta - 02/12/2014One can love dozens of people at the same time--parents, siblings, other family members, friends. On that level, this is a foolish question. But on another level--can one have more than one...

@JimmyJ,

I think it's definitely possible. Our popular conceptualization of romantic love in mainstream U.S. culture is that it can only be felt for one person at a time. This is just a belief, however, not an inherent truth. We've set up lots of systems to reinforce this belief (such as marriage) so it is deeply engrained in our culture, but it is still just a belief. If you feel it, you feel it Smile

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@JimmyJ,

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Is it possible to love two girls at once?

Yes. Very possible. I do now. Except. it is more than two women I love. But. You will always love one more than the other. See how it goes with the one woman you feel the most for. If it doesn't work out then go for the other. If she's available. She probably won't be. But if so..

My chances of being with a woman at all is zero. I know.

I can still love them.

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One can love dozens of people at the same time--parents, siblings, other family members, friends. On that level, this is a foolish question. But on another level--can one have more than one passionate, deep connection to another human being, it's a childish question. It's asking for the authority to have one's cake and to eat it. In my experience, people take a lifetime to even understand what it means to love one other person--and you're basically asking if it's OK to have two women to screw, as long as they don't object. Grow up.

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@Setanta,

I was simply basing my answer on assumption. You grow up you **** head.

Say I'm a man in my early forties. Found this woman I was strongly attracted to. Forgot about the other two women I was talking to before I found this third one for this third one. We'll call this third one ay. And so time goes by ay ends up making me fall for a woman I found when I came across ay. But right now I feel I love ay and this fourth woman both but I think I really want ay. But I love them both. What do I do? Well. Ay pushed me away for a reason. Probably because ay knows she's not good enough for me. But this fourth woman is everything I've ever wanted and more. But I love ay. But ay pushed me away for a reason. Because she knows she's not good enough for me. Oh. Wake up me! This should be a no brainer. Forget ay and go for the woman I've ever wanted and more. Sorry ay but you were right. Ay will never be good enough for me. I'm a man in my early forties I know exactly what I want. How could I question this fourth woman I've came across. Foolish me.

There you have it. I'm ay by the way. How are you.

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@Setanta,

Don't worry setanta. I probably would had replied the same way you replied when I was 18 years old. Don't feel bad.

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@JimmyJ,

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Is it possible to love two girls at once?

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I'm just curious as to if anyone has any experience (girls or guys) with this and if they think it's possible.

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You will always love one more than the other. See how it goes with the one woman you feel the most for. If it doesn't work out with the one you feel the most for then go for the other woman.

I wish you the best JimmyJ. :sincerely:

I might be available if it doesn't work out. Wink

If my mental health doesn't improve whether it works between you and this other woman of yours or not then I may never have the chance to claim you. Mentally.

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@studentlife,

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I think it's definitely possible. Our popular conceptualization of romantic love in mainstream U.S. culture is that it can only be felt for one person at a time. This is just a belief, however, not an inherent truth. We've set up lots of systems to reinforce this belief (such as marriage) so it is deeply engrained in our culture, but it is still just a belief. If you feel it, you feel it

Can u put this to the test ??

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@OmSigDAVID,

The test? Please explain what you mean.

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@JimmyJ,

Please understand JimmyJ. That anything I ever said to you far as claiming you etc I was never serious. I understand how a lot of people love to mess with my head. So I mess with everyone else's heads some times. Only when I realize they are messing with me. Or I don't do anything. Basically what I'm saying is I hope you don't take me serious about nonsense I mention such as my false crush on you. I have nothing for any man. Just using this site to waste time. My way of patiently waiting. Even once the aliens have vacated the premisis good chance I'll remain part of this site for the hell of it. Reason I am locking myself indoors. Seriously plotting suicide so I can get the hell out of this place called earth. The thought of dieing young.

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@Setanta,

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One can love dozens of people at the same time--parents, siblings, other family members, friends. On that level, this is a foolish question. But on another level--can one have more than one passionate, deep connection to another human being, it's a childish question. It's asking for the authority to have one's cake and to eat it. In my experience, people take a lifetime to even understand what it means to love one other person--and you're basically asking if it's OK to have two women to screw, as long as they don't object. Grow up.

Sounds like someone is a little senile.

Forget to take your pills this morning, Setanta? You must have been cheated on as a girl Smile

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@studentlife,

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The test? Please explain what you mean.

I meant: try it.

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@JimmyJ,

Ah yes, smear your critics rather than answering them. That's par for the course with you, isn't it?

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@JimmyJ,

JimmyJ wrote:

I'm just curious as to if anyone has any experience (girls or guys) with this and if they think it's possible.

The ancient Greeks had many different words for "love." Our language does not really have parsed definitions, with an attendant word. However, if one first defines what love is then it might be easier to answer one's own question.

To my way of thinking, if I'm thinking at all, to love another person in a romantic relationship requires fidelity, so the loved person feels that he/she is the only focus of one's romantic feelings. If that is one's definition, then the answer is obvious - no.

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@Setanta,

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Ah yes, smear your critics rather than answering them. That's par for the course with you, isn't it?

Well, when your personal prejudice is clearly getting in the way of your giving helpful advice you're damn right I'll laugh at you and "smear you" as you put it.

Get over yourself, lol.

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@JimmyJ,

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Is it possible to love two girls at once?

Jimmy, who's the other girl? It better not be someone I know.

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@JimmyJ,

Setanta could had been ******* with you Jimmy. Or not.

You and your alike boy-guy friends need to get over "your self".

All you men have that in common I've came to notice.

I'm seriously thinking I'm a man and my mother had my stuff cut off at birth.

You are probably a pretty boy as many others around here who happen to be rather secretly deeply shallow yet attracted to maturity. That makes me sick. Yeah I'm attracted to women older in age than I. they come across as more feminine than I. are older in age than I.. a turn on. Because they have that advantage over me.

But hell. I can't be with a woman as I had once wanted. Things have turned out the way they have. Woman belongs with man.

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@JimmyJ,

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Sounds like someone is a little senile.

Senile. I'll be what ever you feel I am. Unintentionally.

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@JimmyJ,

I'm "over" myself, you're the one with a problem, and it's a maturity problem.

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@Setanta,

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I'm "over" myself, you're the one with a problem, and it's a maturity problem.

Then what 's rong with telling me what 's implausible
qua a commie living next door in NYC 1930s - 1940s.

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