Well, in his reality, he thinks he really is famous and that's all i see him wanting to achieve. I came to know recently that he won some cinema tickets, and he went on his facebook page inving fans to go with him see the movie, they just needed to follow him, etc... how lame is that? it could all make sense if he was really a famous guy around my country lol, i don't know if i cry or laugh about him after all. (it makes me wonder if he's looking ways to high up his ego/attention back to him after being dumped, as a typical narcissist.)
I did the no contact thing, and i simply turned off of him after the break up, i think it was the best thing i could do... he even couldn't respect his own space after the break up, he wanted to stay friends after all. And when he saw that i was ignoring him, he said i was spitting on him after our 8 months, and spitting on the person who gaved me "food" to the table, i don't even owe him anything, and inside the relationship i had a open conversation that i didn't feel good about myself for him paying me things when i couldn't... so it was a really nasty thing to do, he revealed himself, and of course, i ignored that message too.
I couldn't agree more, with classes and etc, we spend like 2 times a weak together, and sometimes only with a coffee, but anyway, i always felt no emotion in this relationship even when we were more time apart, and he was always so critical of me and everything... only with sex, i felt it more. it's obvious, this would all come to an end eventually, doesn't matter my every effort for it. Yes, he spent all that time, and i always have respected it, but somehow it was never my way too, or it was rare the occasions to do something special and different... it was always up to me, even on our birthday/month. kind of dull in the end.
I'm just trying to figure out myself, getting my self-esteem back, my value as a person and what i can't let anymore enter in my heart again.