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older men/ married men...

 
 
Reply Tue 30 Aug, 2005 07:32 am
Hi guys Very Happy

sorta new around here Smile


just thought i would ask your opinion on something...


At the moment i have a thing for older men. I am 22 and currently seeing a 30 year old married man.

I think i have come to the conclusion that i have a thing for older men who are married or have kids already because they already have a life. Since i dont want children of my own and wouldnt want to deal with them everyday. Maybe i am looking for the easy option?

Anyone else have this issue?

Anyone else shed some light on what my fixation could be?
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logicalunit42
 
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Reply Tue 30 Aug, 2005 07:34 am
would you prefer a single 30 year old to a 22 year old married man? or vice versa?
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Bella Dea
 
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Reply Tue 30 Aug, 2005 07:34 am
Rolling Eyes I have my own opinion about women or men who see married people.

Grow up and get your own man. Don't take someone elses. The guy you are seeing isn't worth a dime if he'll cheat on his wife and kids.
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logicalunit42
 
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Reply Tue 30 Aug, 2005 07:36 am
Bella Dea wrote:
Rolling Eyes I have my own opinion about women or men who see married people.

Grow up and get your own man. Don't take someone elses. The guy you are seeing isn't worth a dime if he'll cheat on his wife and kids.


you make too broad statements. you mean, its more likely he isn't worth a dime.
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MrsDuchamp
 
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Reply Tue 30 Aug, 2005 07:36 am
logical i think i would take the 30 year old man.
i think i am just over imature men.


Bella i value your opinion. I have always been the same as you. Until now. I think i will still be the same as you after this thing what ever it is with the man now. I actually pitty him and think he is a worthless sack of **** for what he does to his wife. But it is a long story and yeah. Too boring to tell.
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Bella Dea
 
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Reply Tue 30 Aug, 2005 07:38 am
logicalunit42 wrote:
Bella Dea wrote:
Rolling Eyes I have my own opinion about women or men who see married people.

Grow up and get your own man. Don't take someone elses. The guy you are seeing isn't worth a dime if he'll cheat on his wife and kids.


you make too broad statements. you mean, its more likely he isn't worth a dime.


What? For being a "logical unit" you don't make much sense.

In my opinion, he isn't worth a dime.
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logicalunit42
 
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Reply Tue 30 Aug, 2005 07:38 am
maybe you're turned on to the fact that you're so valuable you can get a married guy to cheat on his wife just to sleep with you. its like a test, a better, harder conquest. you're turned on by the chase. i admire someone who gets turned on by a challenge.
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logicalunit42
 
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Reply Tue 30 Aug, 2005 07:39 am
Bella Dea wrote:
logicalunit42 wrote:
Bella Dea wrote:
Rolling Eyes I have my own opinion about women or men who see married people.

Grow up and get your own man. Don't take someone elses. The guy you are seeing isn't worth a dime if he'll cheat on his wife and kids.


you make too broad statements. you mean, its more likely he isn't worth a dime.


What? For being a "logical unit" you don't make much sense.

In my opinion, he isn't worth a dime.


you don't know him. you can't generalize so completely. its illogical to assume a 100% position when you don't have enough data to come to that conclusion.
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Bella Dea
 
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Reply Tue 30 Aug, 2005 07:40 am
MrsDuchamp wrote:

I actually pitty him and think he is a worthless sack of **** for what he does to his wife. But it is a long story and yeah. Too boring to tell.


Then why are you with him? If you love yourself, you'd let him go.
If you love him, you'd realize that you're being there could ruin his life.
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MrsDuchamp
 
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Reply Tue 30 Aug, 2005 07:40 am
logicalunit42 wrote:
maybe you're turned on to the fact that you're so valuable you can get a married guy to cheat on his wife just to sleep with you. its like a test, a better, harder conquest. you're turned on by the chase. i admire someone who gets turned on by a challenge.



i really think thats it you know

i was so excited about the chase and the first month of it. But now he has become obsessive and i am just bored. i got what i wanted out of it. Its not a challenge anymore. He is in love with me. Now i want to move on to a bigger and better challenge i spose. But he just cant let go.
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Bella Dea
 
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Reply Tue 30 Aug, 2005 07:41 am
logicalunit42 wrote:
Bella Dea wrote:
logicalunit42 wrote:
Bella Dea wrote:
Rolling Eyes I have my own opinion about women or men who see married people.

Grow up and get your own man. Don't take someone elses. The guy you are seeing isn't worth a dime if he'll cheat on his wife and kids.


you make too broad statements. you mean, its more likely he isn't worth a dime.


What? For being a "logical unit" you don't make much sense.

In my opinion, he isn't worth a dime.


you don't know him. you can't generalize so completely. its illogical to assume a 100% position when you don't have enough data to come to that conclusion.


What part of opinion don't you get? Rolling Eyes
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logicalunit42
 
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Reply Tue 30 Aug, 2005 07:42 am
Bella Dea wrote:
logicalunit42 wrote:
Bella Dea wrote:
logicalunit42 wrote:
Bella Dea wrote:
Rolling Eyes I have my own opinion about women or men who see married people.

Grow up and get your own man. Don't take someone elses. The guy you are seeing isn't worth a dime if he'll cheat on his wife and kids.


you make too broad statements. you mean, its more likely he isn't worth a dime.


What? For being a "logical unit" you don't make much sense.

In my opinion, he isn't worth a dime.


you don't know him. you can't generalize so completely. its illogical to assume a 100% position when you don't have enough data to come to that conclusion.


What part of opinion don't you get? Rolling Eyes


opinion is fine. but its not as usefull as facts.
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MrsDuchamp
 
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Reply Tue 30 Aug, 2005 07:42 am
Bella Dea wrote:
MrsDuchamp wrote:

I actually pitty him and think he is a worthless sack of **** for what he does to his wife. But it is a long story and yeah. Too boring to tell.


Then why are you with him? If you love yourself, you'd let him go.
If you love him, you'd realize that you're being there could ruin his life.


i have not seen him for 3 weeks now. But he wont stop vcalling and sending me sms's i told him 2 weekends ago over the phone i have had enough and he should leave me alone. But he just wont get the hint i think.
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Bella Dea
 
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Reply Tue 30 Aug, 2005 07:44 am
Deleted because I am not arguing with a dolt.
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Bella Dea
 
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Reply Tue 30 Aug, 2005 07:44 am
MrsDuchamp wrote:
Bella Dea wrote:
MrsDuchamp wrote:

I actually pitty him and think he is a worthless sack of **** for what he does to his wife. But it is a long story and yeah. Too boring to tell.


Then why are you with him? If you love yourself, you'd let him go.
If you love him, you'd realize that you're being there could ruin his life.


i have not seen him for 3 weeks now. But he wont stop vcalling and sending me sms's i told him 2 weekends ago over the phone i have had enough and he should leave me alone. But he just wont get the hint i think.


Tell him that if he won't leave you alone, you will ask his wife for help.
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logicalunit42
 
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Reply Tue 30 Aug, 2005 07:47 am
Bella Dea wrote:
Deleted because I am not arguing with a dolt.


what was dolty about my statement?
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MrsDuchamp
 
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Reply Tue 30 Aug, 2005 07:47 am
Bella Dea wrote:
MrsDuchamp wrote:
Bella Dea wrote:
MrsDuchamp wrote:

I actually pitty him and think he is a worthless sack of **** for what he does to his wife. But it is a long story and yeah. Too boring to tell.


Then why are you with him? If you love yourself, you'd let him go.
If you love him, you'd realize that you're being there could ruin his life.


i have not seen him for 3 weeks now. But he wont stop vcalling and sending me sms's i told him 2 weekends ago over the phone i have had enough and he should leave me alone. But he just wont get the hint i think.


Tell him that if he won't leave you alone, you will ask his wife for help.



lol i like your style bella
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Bella Dea
 
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Reply Tue 30 Aug, 2005 07:50 am
MrsDuchamp wrote:
Bella Dea wrote:
MrsDuchamp wrote:
Bella Dea wrote:
MrsDuchamp wrote:

I actually pitty him and think he is a worthless sack of **** for what he does to his wife. But it is a long story and yeah. Too boring to tell.


Then why are you with him? If you love yourself, you'd let him go.
If you love him, you'd realize that you're being there could ruin his life.


i have not seen him for 3 weeks now. But he wont stop vcalling and sending me sms's i told him 2 weekends ago over the phone i have had enough and he should leave me alone. But he just wont get the hint i think.


Tell him that if he won't leave you alone, you will ask his wife for help.



lol i like your style bella

Thanks. Very Happy Some people call me witty. Some people call me bitch. Either way, I have fun. :wink:
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MrsDuchamp
 
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Reply Tue 30 Aug, 2005 07:52 am
Bella Dea wrote:
MrsDuchamp wrote:
Bella Dea wrote:
MrsDuchamp wrote:
Bella Dea wrote:
MrsDuchamp wrote:

I actually pitty him and think he is a worthless sack of **** for what he does to his wife. But it is a long story and yeah. Too boring to tell.


Then why are you with him? If you love yourself, you'd let him go.
If you love him, you'd realize that you're being there could ruin his life.


i have not seen him for 3 weeks now. But he wont stop vcalling and sending me sms's i told him 2 weekends ago over the phone i have had enough and he should leave me alone. But he just wont get the hint i think.


Tell him that if he won't leave you alone, you will ask his wife for help.


Thanks. Very Happy Some people call me witty. Some people call me bitch. Either way, I have fun. :wink:
lol i like your style bella


Fun is what lifes is about hun Very Happy :wink:
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