Fiance frequently studying with attractive female coworker

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My fiancé works with a woman who has previously spoken very highly of and described as attractive.

They are both sitting an exam in a few months. My fiancé has been insistent on having her as a study partner as he says she takes study very seriously. He did not start vigorously studying with her yet, but said it will start at 3 days per week then daily. They will be studying together for months one on one, either online or in person e.g the library

I’ve never met this woman and feel insecure and upset about the whole thing. My fiancé says it’s me he loves but I’m finding it hard to get comfortable with this. Any advice would be appreciated.

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@Orangerose91,

I thought you broke up with your fiancé last year. Is this someone new you’re engaged to?

Bottom line here is that you either trust him or you don’t. He’s studying and that’s pretty serious work. He can make the choice of the best study partner. If she happens to be attractive so be it. Have confidence in yourself and move on with this.

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@Orangerose91,

Just because someone is attractive doesn't mean that they're available, interested or willing. Good Lord. Would you worry if his study mate was a guy?

She could be with someone, married, just got out of a **** marriage - you know nothing yet you are letting your fears and insecurities flourish. Maybe she is a threat; maybe not. But why start off this way? Wait until something happens before you start worrying.

Maybe meet her - ask your fiancé to set up a coffee date. You may be able to set your mind at rest.

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@Orangerose91,

The question is can you trust him, the best thing to do when entering into a relationship is find out about the persons past, because sometimes the answers are red flags. I would distress my issue with him. But anyone can be considered attractive and i am sure the temptation for him is there. But can you trust him. Faith is personal trust.

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