@Candycreamsl,
Friends with benefits means that you are in much deeper than mere friendship. I doubt he'd be having regular sex with you if he wasn't sexually attracted to you. As a man, I know men are very unlikely to do anything that they don't really like doing, for any reason. So I think you can be pretty sure he's into your body type. And really, if you only want a friends with benefits relationship, then why even bring this up to him? If you're both happy with things, then why stir the waters. I really do not think he would be having sex with you because he's "insecure." However he does seem obsessed with a wierdly unhealthy body type - models - and that might be a red flag that he has other problems going on. Because real women have curves, and flab, and aren't manufactured barbie dolls. And they shouldn't try to be. But as long as you're enjoying this as it is, I say just go with it and don't rock the boat.