@StarbucksFreak,
I'll comment on this from first hand experience. Whoever the young lady is, I STRONGLY recommend she consider the consequences of such an age gap. I met my wife when I was 49 and she was 28. It was a business relationship that turned into a full blown romantic relationship and 11 years later a child and 6 years after that a marriage. It's been an extremely hard road for her (not me). We are still married but she is certainly not happy. When we met, I was told I was quite handsome, and I suppose that was true because I had a lot of social activity. I'm 72 now and she is 51. As you can imagine, I am no longer a hunk, but she is still quite attractive. She has recently asked me to give her permission to have the occasional "tryst" outside of our marriage. I can't say I was stunned because we haven't had a sex life in many years (partly due to ED which I have never seriously sought treatment for, I just had a very weak libido.) It's totally my fault because when I could have done something about it, I didn't. But now, that train has left the station. She isn't coming back emotionally and I feel lower than I have in my life.
So, my point is for any young lady who is contemplating getting involved with man seriously older than she is, try your best to picture life not a year from now, not five years from now, but 25-30 years from now. Save yourself the pain in older years. Find someone you will grow old with, not someone who will be old long before you are.