@Cupcakeicecream,
I'm female and I shared an apartment many moons ago with another female friend and a male friend. It was strictly platonic.
In a casual uncommitted relationship, chances are he's talking to and dating other women. As much as I understand your concern that you don't want to mess around with someone who has a girlfriend, you won't know whether it's true unless you're invited over to his house with her there.
For instance, if he's always making up excuses for why you can't come over and meet his friends or family, there's a good chance he's in a relationship with someone else.