Well for starters I am not for LGBT stuff as in my opinion it does not count.
It is like the question of "losing virginity". A guy can not "lose his" because there is no part of their body to split/pop/etc.....and you see the problem we are having here. So Ignoring that..........
When is the last time you have "taken" or "went" for sex from this person?
No words, no talking, no bs. Just go in for what is rightfully yours, because you know you can. It is like when I was out looking for girls, and I ended the association with a small kiss/hug or over the dramatic kiss or something with a stranger I barely know at all.
This is an old argument from the 1990's. You have seen the post Bruce Lee death film "In search of the dragon" about a bunch of "Yellows" ( East Asian oriented persons ) who was looking to become his replacement. Their is a scene where a couple gets into an argument. It is assumed they had makeup sex or whatever. Then again "Blade Runner", "American Pop", or even the "Turner Dairies".
Point I am trying to make, people put them into specific positions where they are able to be taken advantage of. Like a "husband and wife" ( Read some books by Martin Luther and marriage ). It is like that film "Juno", and we ask the question "Who fault is it?"
There are tons of girls ( like our mothers ) who will put themselves into that position and all we could say are those four-letter-words but the truth is
that everyone wants "it" to happen naturally. No give and take, no dinner-date, just pure unadulterated animalistic nature.
It is nature and it is blehhhhh, or ugghhh, or digusting.
I knew a girl I liked ( among many girls ), she pulled out a knife on me, sat with her legs open, held me when a grabbed her breast. Now she is a lesbian, with hair on her legs, corn-braids ( like the ones being marketed to men in anime ), and walks around in a Jersey, with sneakers. It is a horror show this thing called life. But for five seconds she was a girl, and for five seconds their was a window of opportunity. However that window is gone, and she is possibly more man then me.
Your with this person, so why not just take what you know is natural?
Your not man enough? But again who fault is it?