english to latin, "born to lose" and "loser"

hello,
sorry since the question has been asked before but since it resulted in different answers i thought i'd ask for a clarification..

i need "born to lose" translated to latin, as in "i was born to lose".. a search in the forum yielded:
natus ad damnum
natus perdere
natus vinci

also i couldn't find anything on "loser", as in "i am a loser"

anyone who has too much time on his/her hands and like to give me a hand?

thanks