Mon 4 Jul, 2022 09:38 pm
Basically the long and short of it is I've been identifying as bi for the past couple of years but now I'm starting to realize that I might be a lesbian. I really only think of women when picturing anything sexual but in theory I can picture myself with a man. I don't have a vast dating history but of the men I was with I was never interested in them first, but when we did go on dates I wasn't uncomfortable, just uninterested. Part of me thinks that I just haven't meet the right guy, or I'm not as into women as a "real" lesbian would be. I'm not disgusted with men nor super interested but I'm not feeling butterflies with just any objectively hot girl.
I think you are worrying too much about putting a label on yourself. Love who you want to love. If others want to put a label on you, ignore them.