Method of thinking and gun violence and solving this riddle

Why do people talk about police reform, or gun control when it is really about the physiological issue of method of thinking?

I mean most of these shootings, slayings, etc could be avoided if people was just respectful and realize not everybody is a monster. However that is the problem with this world.

You run into this person who takes joy out of your limitations or suffering and they themselves makes your life impossible.

If we could just look at the actual steps people took before making specific decisions. Only then we could find the actual cause.

It is like the "Lion and the Mouse". The lion did not eat the mouse and in return the mouse help the Lion out of human trap. That is what respect is.
Your politeness to one person can gain something in your life. That thing might even very well be your life.

Did you heard about the gun-man who held up a woman and was scared off by bible verses. Why? Because maybe he was forced to go to church and maybe it was a good place for him. Maybe him reading the good book and having family of that nature gave him the ability to not shoot that lady or continue to rob her. That is why "going to church" or "understanding scripture" could be great.

Imagine if you was a respectful student. You made yourself good looking,
was polite, always pushed for an A, and listen, When I was in college I literally was down I decided to be polite to my professors. It paid off, they gave me extra opportunities and even help my grade. Not only having ideal classroom behavior and studying made me look good as well but promoted my grade. You know students was jealous of me and angry.

You know how you calm guys down and make them less violent.

1. Guys needs vagina. It has to be young, clean, and make him feel like a million bucks until he is sick of it. If Mrs. Roberson made herself plastic surgery anew and was fit and kept her mouth shut about her age and went around taking virginity of every guy ( no matter what age ). The world would be a better place. If every guy just realize she wants to lose hers just as badily even if there is tears and had the courage to do so I bet every young man out there would be way happy. The last thing we want to do is pay for it, and that money would be better spent. Just love, love and love. Chances are most guys not getting any are in families too selfish to realize that makes everything normal.

2. Black people ( anybody who speaks street slang ) need to quit the rap, hip-hop, or even keep it to the club life. And actually dress up and be above all a better man. Even going as far to take the jobs and being the better student. Because in my experience almost every single person I went to school with who was white, had issues with almost everything African American and usually this was Americans ( not even people from Africa ).

3. Finally I say verbal abuse to other kinds of abuse. You need to have as much respect to even a religious person. Politeness is key and while everybody tries to bounce a ball of respect back and forth sometimes you realize that too many people want to get and never give. We have to be like Mister Rogers. What happen to being happy and not caring about the world?
That is what we need. I do not care if my neighbor has a ____. As long as that ______ is not any danger to me or my household.

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We do not need more laws.
We need better people.
The people just suck, and many of them looks good but are not good.

We do not "Violence Against women Act" or "Patriot Act"
( Aka anti-privacy act ) or anything that impedes the ability for men to be men. We need men who are responsible and calculates their actions. But for that to be they need to be normalized.

Lose their "virginity" a couple of times.
Not have to deal with a proud N-word screaming N-word and upholding the rap / Street image. But a proud human being who actually steps up.
Politeness and respect from dressing nice to being upbeat and cherry like some kind of Stereotypical British image or even Mister Rogers entire seasons run.

That is what I think would help push in the direction of preventing more gun violence.