Fairy Tale

Huh?

not getting married was a good thing......

I'd probably turn that around, Violet: he proposed, she declined, and then lived happily ever after.

My father once said that guys have a much harder time remaining single than women. (Hey, now there's a topic for a thread!)

That is so true. Guys cannot handle being alone. They move on from a relaionship so quickly! wimps, I tell u!

LOL!

diag, im obviously female.....what about u?

am being ignored:(

hehe I do agree. Even though, I'm a male, I've seen a lot more guys in a relationship. But I have to add that they aren't as desperate as some of my friends that are girls. I always hear them say, I'm never getting a bf. I'm never getting married. arg look at me I'm not pretty 'nuff.' But in reality, they are pretty, but just have lost self-esteem.

I think it is easy for a guy to jump from realtionship to relationship because they attach themselves differently than females do..... I also think girls are alot more complicated than men and the stress of a relationship is hard on girls because many over analyze alot (I DO I DO)...

I dont think guys feel as deeply as women. Which means they are shallow creatures. I think women are spoilt by movies, gives us the expectation that there are men out there who have depth. Viva braveheart!
(im an overanalyzer2...!Drives me crazy!!!!)

LOL, no, Violet, not at all. It's just that I had to go hit the hay. And yes, I'm from the same side of the human race as you! :wink:





True on both counts. I found it fascinating in the book BRAIN SEX (written by a woman geneticist) to learn that men's brain halves are connected by a much thinner strand than women's. This explains (amongst other things) why women are more "attuned" to emotions and why in male-female relationships, emotions are such an issue for us.



There are some, but they're already taken. Yet even with those men, the dangler still has a tendency to impinge on their perspective/expectations (I've seen this first-hand).

the dangler!

Yes. I know women who are convinced that THAT's where most men's (few) brain cells reside.

PS re their shallowness: one guy made the interesting observation that guys needed to be constructed less emotional so that they could fulfill the role of protector/defender (i.e. for fighting/being wounded). I thought that made sense. (But it's still frustrating!)

if women could evolve, why couldnt guys?

There was actually a study done where a bunch of PHDs conluded that a homosexual's brain patterns are similar as that of a woman. I think that's why men are afraid to show emotions- they don't want to look like a wimp or a queer.