Reply
Tue 2 Aug, 2005 10:18 pm
Hello
Well i have a boyfriend of 9 years and would love some help. Things have been great but lately we always argue and i can stand it and im not sure what to do. We argue over little things but the arguements become really huge and he will call me names etc and eventually if i keep arguing he becomes quite agressive not towards me but generally. Im just not sure what to do
Get out of the situation girl, it's not going to get better. Something is bugging your bf, he obviously isn't up to telling you about it, but it looks like he's pretty unhappy and you need to be moving on.
Go forward, forget him, there are plenty of fish in the sea, and ones who will love you for yourself and respect you to boot.
Good luck!
We all know that a relationship that has lasted that long is very hard to give up on, but things change.
If you are arguing and he does release some aggression, it won't be long before something might really make him snap.
Get out of the situation and move on