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Here is my situation. I've been married for 2 years. We have been together for about 7 years (from which 3 was a long distance relationship). We used to have a really good sex life, up until we actually moved in together about 4 years ago, when it started occurring less and less. On average I would say we have sex about 1 or 2 times a year! I dont know about other young married couples, but I think this isn't normal. Especially because we both love each other very much, and have otherwise very good relationship. I dont really understand what could possibly be going wrong. Mornings she never felt like it, evenings we are mostly tired, during the day we are not together. Well, then there are weekends, but that doesnt work out either. I admit I don't always try too hard, because I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable by constant nagging or humping Smile

But she never makes any advances either. It used to be that these things just happened, way back 4 or 5 years ago, but now. I dont know what to do anymore. Giving up sex before I reached 30 is a bit too early i think. Any tips?

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May be there are some women out there (married or not) who can help me understand what I could be doing wrong?

Or may be a married man who has a similar problem. (at least i wont feel like I am the only one) Smile

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I'm in somewhat of the same situation, though perhaps much worse. I've posted in a couple other strings. I haven't had sex in over 3 years, and I've been married 9 years. My wife doesn't seem to want sex. I miss it, sometimes intensely.

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when you were going out you had a six pack Cool

now you have a keg Crying or Very sad

are you trying as hard to get her in bed as when she was your girlfriend??

or if when you were going out and you wanted to score the first time and she said no......did you gave up and ask this forum??? Very Happy

maybe now that we got it, we want it to be easier,,,I DONT THINK SO!!

power to all the girls who make the man work for it!!

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hmm
do u think she is capable of cheating?

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Roofingguy wrote:

when you were going out you had a six pack
now you have a keg

are you trying as hard to get her in bed as when she was your girlfriend??

or if when you were going out and you wanted to score the first time and she said no......did you gave up and ask this forum???

maybe now that we got it, we want it to be easier,,,I DONT THINK SO!!

power to all the girls who make the man work for it!!

seriously, shut the hell up!!!

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My husband is more interested in teen porn and does have erections watching. But with me it is nothing. We have had several arguments over his porn which before I really didn't mind. But he watches daily and can achieve erections but NEVER with me. He has he as ED but I dont think so. We are older and their is nothing I can do to reverse the years. People are always surprised that I am as old as I am. So it is not like I am undesirable. But my self esteem is really down and I feel like I am nothing. I am amazed at the young girls he looks at on porn sites, geesh they don't even look like they are 16. I don't know what to do. So all those men who complain about no sex well it is also on the other foot.

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I'm usally all for porn, but in your case ezx2 it does sound like it's become an unhealthy habit. I get aroused if a girl just looks at me funny. Nothing can compare to the real thing.

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I am not a man so I am never sure how the other half think. Thank you for your response. I too am very concerned but talking to him about it always ends in a big argument. That he can't perform and porn gives him relief. I think it is a a porn addiction.

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On et cetera's problem - I don't know the answer except that you two don't know how to make love well together, for possibly many reasons including simple ones related to inexperience, or perhaps more complex ones. I suspect you could both benefit from a bit of reading to understand more. Alas, I am not the person to tell you what is the most useful book at the local bookstore. Perhaps someone else here will help.

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