AHHH I AM SO MAD.... just venting

Not to mention this Morning.... We had to get up early this morning and we always turn on the tv when we wake up.. so I turn in on and the show 'cops' is on and it is about domestic violence and there is a little girl sreaming.... So I am sitting there watching it for a minute and he gets upset that the girl is screaming and just turns it off without even asking so I say what the hell and he calls me a deushbag for getting mad...when all I said was what the hell!!! He storms off....

Recently I started smoking butts again and I will ask him for some so I don't go and buy myself a pack (I buy them for him sometimes)... and I need to quit because of my meds but I am sooo stressed out right now... and I understand that he cares but when I asked him this morning for one he started screaming at me(and we are in a parking lot of a store) and he was like THIS IS IT STOP ASKING ME. I AM SICK OF IT... and when I say screaming I mean screaming... YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED TO HAVE ANYMORE......

HE gets me soooo angry sometimes!!!

Is this feeling related or in partial to the ex-boyfriend by any chance?

Crazielady--

What are the romantic perks of this relationship? Financial perks? Opportunities for intellectional and personal growth? Do you feel emotionally supported against the slings and arrows of this weary world?

No it's always been like this

The ex is still just a friend in my eyes, I actually haven't thought about him much today, been 2 stressed out

Romantic, don't know the word...maybe a back rub
Financial= Debt
Growth- Possible
Emotional support- Sometimes

What's got you so stressed out that you want to smoke again?

Tell him to take the freakin' bus. Or a cab.

Tell him if he has to resort to calling you names, it's over. That is immature and uncalled for. No mature relationship should be like this. Dump his ass now.

my question is why you allow him to behave like a teenage boy?
Do you find it funny that he calls you a douche bag?
If not then why dont you tell him? LOUDLY?
Thats highschool behavior that should have been left at the scene of graduation..

Here's my two sense:

Life is too short to settle for anything less then what you want/deserve. It does not sound to me like this guy is treating you very nice. Does he make you happy? if not - find someone who does

He thinks he has issues because he may have to walk home - are you kidding me?? I would tell him to GROW UP!

Agreed with shewolfnm.

It shouldn't be allowed. He needs to grow up. Dump him. But ultimately, follow what's in your heart.