Sat 12 Sep, 2020 02:41 pm
Hi, I am currently getting to know someone, and sex has become a topic for discussion lately. It’s been years since I’ve had sex, and I am honestly insecure of my body, among other things. My partner is smaller than me, and I just want to know if others have such insecurities? If so, how you deal with them?
@snickerscndybar,
Everyone has insecurities about sex. I don't know what else is helpful.
It sounds like you are talking about sex with your partner. This is a good thing. The next step is kissing and letting. You can have sexual activity bit by bit... you don't have to have intercourse the first time you are sexual.
The good thing is that nature has given us nuerochemicals that happen naturally when you start sexual activity. These chemicals increase passion and decrease worry. Let them do their job and go with it. Try kissing your partners neck playfully, and see what happens
The penis goes in the vagina.
Pro tip.
@maxdancona,
maxdancona wrote:
Everyone has insecurities about sex. I don't know what else is helpful.
It is not helpful because it is simply not true ... You have issues max, people you know have issues, people you see on this sort of site have issues ... People I know do not have issues, including myself.
However, as the OP appears to be an average person and therefore their 'beau' will be an average person; then yes, both will be as nervous as a porcupine on it's wedding night.
@FreedomEyeLove,
Oh how terribly dull and mundane .... pro tip? Don't make me laugh.
@maxdancona,
Quote:The penis goes in the vagina.
Not always.
True.
What's strange is, why do aliens always probe people in the butt? Why not other holes?
@FreedomEyeLove,
Would anybody care to respond as to how I contact the admins (and have a dialogue with them where they actually respond) here to address the voting abuse by bob ^
If the rules here actually mean anything at all, then it seems reasonable that this long standing issue be addressed.
@FreedomEyeLove,
Who is Bob?
If you want to talk to the admins then got to "contact us" and you're there?
You do realize that voting someone down means that they collapse their post so they won't have to read it any longer. On top of that: who cares ??
@CalamityJane,
bobsal u1553115
Quote:If you want to talk to the admins then got to "contact us" and you're there?
They never respond to me. I've tried that several times.
Quote:You do realize that voting someone down means that they collapse their post so they won't have to read it any longer.
If that's true, then why is my post voted down to -14, but the surrounding posts aren't?
Code:On top of that: who cares ??
Spoken like someone who hasn't dealt with the sock puppet down voting abuse by bob, probably because you have the "correct" opinions.
@maxdancona,
maxdancona wrote:
Everyone has insecurities about sex. I don't know what else is helpful.
I hope I am out of line but not everybody has insecurities unless you mean public sexuality.
maxdancona wrote:
It sounds like you are talking about sex with your partner.
SEX means: you already know.
maxdancona wrote:
This is a good thing. The next step is kissing and letting. You can have sexual activity bit by bit... you don't have to have intercourse the first time you are sexual.
Creepy
maxdancona wrote:
The good thing is that nature has given us nuerochemicals that happen naturally when you start sexual activity. These chemicals increase passion and decrease worry. Let them do their job and go with it.
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maxdancona wrote:
Try kissing your partners neck playfully, and see what happens
Same strategy at a party dressed for the renaissance in the future. Shots at the body with salt and liquor.
@snickerscndybar,
Smaller than you? Please advise by replying to this message directly.
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