What's wrong with my appearance ?

Good day. I'm a guy, it so happened that for the last 5 years I have been ill, with orphan pathology, with a late debut, genetics, manifestations occur as acromegaly, which ultimately directly affects my appearance. But not the point, I then decided for myself, I will live as long as I can, the main thing I will live to the maximum, and then I faced reality, I began to pay attention to how the attitude of people towards me changed, dramatically, for the worse, so I am with the opposite gender, everywhere I am an outcast and rabble, it does not even reach the initial acquaintance or flirting, how much I read literature, psychology, that all this happens subconsciously among people, the assessment of others, I noticed this very much on myself. Only one more big problem, for a long time I realized that specifically, the truth is not someone who will not tell when, even if you even ask directly how many psychologists (women) even had on this issue in person, but I came to the conclusion that more than one psychologist will not appreciate you objectively, besides, you pay money for this, for your money, he will not tell you the truth, or something bitter. But I myself cannot fully adequately assess myself. Even through good and successful photos, if it was possible to arrange a meeting with a girl. then after the first meeting, there was nothing further, as you understand the excuse, then you can come up with any. Although I will note that you can go on for a long time with communication, tact, politeness, and so on, I have no problems, on the contrary, in this I differ for the better from the majority of men.

Let it finally be the bitter truth, for me this is not news and will change little, and will not make it worse, but I want to know what in this regard destroys my social and personal life.

And tell me, is it true that all modern smartphones, they embellish a person more in comparison with reality and are not entirely objective?