Long distance relationship - weird woman

Hello,

I'll try to keep this short as possible, but at the same time I want to discuss this story in a better detail.

I met this woman (much older than me) - 40 years old in Ukraine in Kyiv. I am 27 years old. We met in Kyiv over Badoo dating app, and since we met the first time in Kyiv, we had a really good connection from the start. The sex was great, our communication as well.

We continued talking to eachother for couple of months over the phone (since I left Kyiv the next day).

It was great, we were talking for a couple of hours every night, we even slept with our phones on. Always when I called in the evening, she answered me and talked to me.

We even met again in Budapest (she came by plane, I came by bus) for an extended weekend in between.

After a couple of months, I got some feelings for my project manager, and I explained that to my Ukrainian woman over the phone, that I have some feelings that I shouldn't have for my project manager and that I will resolve and fix this - and that I like her (Ukrainian woman) more.

I was also very busy at that time, and I didn't had the time to talk with her every night anymore.

And I did - I resolved my thing with my project manager, got much more time later on, and I wanted to talk with my Ukrainian woman again.

We talked for some time (not very much), and after that she just said - she needs to focus on herself and her kid.

I left her alone, left her to focus on herself and her kid and I focused on myself. She started saying that we are just friends and so on. She didn't want to talk to me anymore - it was all of a sudden, I only wanted to understand her and resolve this, but she didn't gave me this chance.

After half a year - she contacted me again, started sending me pictures of herself every morning, even called me couple of times, and we had long conversation. Out of the blue, she said - she was thinking about coming to my country.

I was very excited, but because of coronavirus that isn't possible and I said, I could visit Ukraine again.

She had her birthday, I bought her 75 flowers for her 40th birthday - she texted me and was happy about it. But I expected at least she would call me the same evening - she didn't. I called her, she cancelled my call. Said she is with her friends.

The next day we talked about this - she said she is also ******* with one guy, but he is only her friend - and not even a lover.

I was a bit pissed of and angry ofcourse, but later on I was calmed about this, since she said - she just has him for sex. Which I understand, since we have long distance relationship and we haven't talked for so long.

But after that, always when I tried to call her on the phone, she wouldn't pick up, sometimes even write back and so on. This made me a bit angry sometimes, made me sad - and I wanted to discuss some things, while she avoided answers - and kept saying we are just friends.

But even if we are just friends, I wouldn't expect such behavior from her. She keeps saying she is busy and so on - but nobody is so busy, and at least she can write me a text message after I call her multiple times.

Now after 2 weeks of basically arguing and me being sad and angry - and she acting like she just doesn't care a tiny bit about me - things went very far, so far that she even blocked me. So we don't have any conversaion at all for 2 days now.

She started ignoring me and later blocked me.

I wonder, why would she block me? All I wanted was a normal conversation over the phone to sort/clear things out.

I asked her if I ever hurt her (because of project manager), and is this some sort of her revange?

What are some of your perspectives on this?

I am still willing to come to Ukraine, but I really don't understand why she is always running from problems.