Three things about nimh

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I didnt think I coulda put it much more clearly than that!!

Anyway, one outa three looks like a little bit more of a longshot, tho you never know ... (would be a great friend, anyway, so no sweat).

I'm tempted to just kinda let things go - not chase anything but see what happens and go with it.

Well, pretty much like I always do ;-)

Of course that would put the (eh, hypothetical) American girl at an unfair advantage over the two Hungarian ones, cause Americans are just more ... forward.

But she's really cute too, so whatever.

Whatever happens I guess just one thing is sure - if something does happen, she cant get to find out about a2k

Anyway, yes to that. I love her. Just wont be with her - self-preservation thing.

But being still so close with her all this time, when I was still in Holland - in (ehh) different ways too, on and off (hey, her idea ... ok, and mine) - and knowing she still (or again) did want to be with me (despite everything) - you know - you stay very involved. I mean, on top of the sense of responsibility. Plus, like I said, I do care very deeply for her. I really wish we could work together.

And I know she's gonna make it. <nods>

(OK, so this post was serious)

I had to go searching to see what you were on about -- I'd read it the first time around, but it wasn't intimidating! Certainly not into silence. Was it supposed to be?

Mostly just happily watching you get established in your new life and get out and DO stuff (I was going to say something to Piffka's watching comment about how that seems to be less true of you in Hungary, which is cool).

Oh, and go for the cute American girl already, especially if she's only going to be around for a while (didn't you say she's going back to San Francisco, or something?)

As long as you don't get embroiled in a long-distance relationship!!! Oh no, now I'm worried... IMNSHO that is the LAST thing you need right now.

Well noo - I didnt think it was!! But then what do I know?

cool mis-spelling btw

Joining in the sagely nodding group and eagerly waiting for more on nimh's love life. I just love this stuff.

Sorry about that btw - here's a link to those two posts

"I wanna get laid."
"I need to get laid."

I think that'd be a bit clearer - a little less theoretical, dispassionate third party.

"I need to get my effin groove thang on, and there are three hotties who won't say no. Which one do I do first?"

Now that's first party!

I was responding to Walter's previous post!

ok ok ebeth, i get your point ...!

i'm still practicing, 'k?

('sok little k)

Just one thing about nimh: Openness. You share so much about your life & what matters to you here. One is left in no doubt about where you stand on the people, issues & other things of importance to you. I rather like that!

Yes, honest to the point of painfully honest - that one I recognize.

I tend to think of "painfully honest" as a good thing, btw! But I know it freaks people out sometimes <nods>

OK, so I came up with a bunch more. (you can be painfully honest about 'em ;-))

Are they anywhere close or am I deceiving myself? Oh, such questions...

------------------------------------------------------------------------

+ nuanced (in views)
- dogmatic (in spirit)

+ articulate
- strong views / impatient in debate

+ patient (otherwise)
- demanding

+ tolerant of other people's flaws
- high-maintenance himself

When feeling down:
+ sweet
- awkward

When feeling up:
+ enthusiastic / up for anything
- lax, unattentive

+ always a joke
- not always a conversation

+ giving
- doesn't take charge

+ easy-going (usually, except when..: )
- insecure (way too often - very unattractive in a man)

+ tolerant
- defensive

+ loyal
- clingy

- fretful
- neurotic
(ok, thats two minuses ... just cause you all give too few)

+ broad interests
- no focus

+ conscientious ( dutiful)
- noooo discipline

+ determined to the point of dogged (once finally having started something)
- plain obsessive
(goes for work, love, random projects ...)

+ enjoys pleasures of life
- desperately hopeless with money/planning

+ not fat
- not fit

+ not ugly
- not handsome

I'm being way too easy on myself here ...

I feel like I'm forgetting something ...

Oh yeah I'm an arrogant bastard thats what

Eh? No.

That this thread is still on-topic might be a minus, if kickyness is a goal. Kicky would have started an orgy by now prolly.

I am so! I'm such an arrogant bastard - always! Am I not? I mean, what do you think? I could be wrong, I suppose ... Perhaps, I mean - if you say differently, I dunno <scratches head> sort of an arrogant bastard? Kind of? I suppose I should strive towards a compromise here ...



Hey I got the thread offtrack but then I went back again.

Never go back.

Well, you're iin good company here on A2K.

But definately at the bottom of that league (perhaps Eerste Divisie in this, but top of the table re all the other in Eredivisie).

<this would be a good thing to ask us to guess what you just saw in the bathroom>

LOL, see i got the vanity thing down pat, now i just need to be more of a gutter rat

(rhymes even an' all, tho kicky's gonna get me for this )

but then hey, compared to exemplary soz (how courteously she sidesteps inappropriate innuendo!), i'm already in the gutter