He says we are okay but it doesn’t feel so

I asked here once about a guy that told me he loves me and I wasn’t sure if he meant it in a friendly way or romantically. Turns out he meant it romantically but he wasn’t sure of his feelings and honesty neither did I. I said i’ Okay with that and i would like to figure them out together and we stayed friends but we were talking almost every second of every day for around three months and it was magical. Recently he isn’t talking unless i talked to him first and i tried to talk things out with him and i said to him that even if he wants to remove the possibility of being together or if he figured out his feeling and they weren’t strong enough for a serious relationship that’s fine by me but i need to know what is going on. He insists that everything okay between us and nothing changed but i know he did change. He doesn’t care about me the way he did in the past he doesn’t even check on me. It’s driving me mad. I just want to know where we stand at. Can you give me some perspective please?