I have a crush but he's a fuckboy

Reply Tue 7 Jan, 2020 09:41 pm
Sooo I'm a high school girl and this year, there is this guy who transffered... he was expelled from his former school because he and his mates had nudes of some girl who had therefore postponed them. So we can say that this guy is a fuckboy, but I can not help finding him handsome like he really has so much charisma and beautiful eyes.
So I didn't really noticed him until he actually interacted with me. It started when we were on the same bus and he was staring at me really intensely so I was giving him back his eye contact. He was with his friends so I guess it was a joke, but he started giving me kisses in the air and reaching out his hand to me sometimes, and also taking my hair and smell it, in short, all little things like that. I never really knew how to react so I always kept an awkward air (a kind of forced embarrassed smile full of judgement? idk lol).
Anyways, then, I realized he was in school too (because no, I didn't know, I thought he was just a random guy from the bus (sorry, the order of my story is kind of fucked up)). And since then, he doesn't do anything to me anymore, but I never understood if he was mocking me or whatever players do, I still don't understand why he did these things.
The problem now is that I find him really attractive and I want his attention so bad, but I don't know how to get it. Should I follow him on Instagram? Talk to him? I really don't get this kind of guy so can you help me out please Wink
Reply Tue 7 Jan, 2020 10:31 pm
Be really good to yourself and avoid this guy at all costs. Remember, women thought Ted Bundy was attractive and very charming.....all the way up until he killed them.
Reply Wed 8 Jan, 2020 07:29 pm
Thanks for your opinion Wink The thing is that I know he doesn't suit me and that he is a player, but he's just dhasknckxbckbs idk, love at first sight? Okay, maybe not that much lol I don't actually know him, but he's real my type. And woah, hope he was nothing common with Ted Bundy, I mean he's a 16 years old boy and maybe he is a troublemaker, but not to that point.
Anyways, I think I should try to loose interest in him...
Reply Wed 8 Jan, 2020 11:10 pm
Sounds like he's immature and was doing all that on the bus more to "impress" his friends rather than to show he likes you.

You really want to be involved with someone who disrespects women so much that he posts nude photos of some girl? And I shudder to think of how they got those pictures in the first place. Most girls don't just up and say "Hey! I know. Let me take my clothes off and pose suggestively to you can take pictures. What could go wrong?"

Would you like to be the next girl that happens to?

Re Ted Bundy. People like Bundy show many signs early in their lives.

Excerpts from Wiki

Bundy occasionally exhibited disturbing behavior, even at that early age. Julia recalled awakening one day from a nap to find herself surrounded by knives from the Cowell kitchen; her three-year-old nephew was standing by the bed, smiling.

Bundy had different recollections of Tacoma when he spoke to his biographers. When he talked to Michaud and Aynesworth, he described how he roamed his neighborhood, picking through trash barrels in search of pictures of naked women.[28] When he spoke to Polly Nelson, he explained how he perused detective magazines, crime novels, and true crime documentaries for stories that involved sexual violence, particularly when the stories were illustrated with pictures of dead or maimed bodies.[29] In a letter to Rule, he asserted that he "never, ever read fact-detective magazines, and shuddered at the thought" that anyone would.[30] In his conversation with Michaud, he described how he would consume large quantities of alcohol and "canvass the community" late at night in search of undraped windows where he could observe women undressing, or "whatever [else] could be seen."[31]

Bundy also varied the accounts of his social life. He told Michaud and Aynesworth that he "chose to be alone" as an adolescent because he was unable to understand interpersonal relationships.[32] He claimed that he had no natural sense of how to develop friendships. "I didn't know what made people want to be friends," he said. "I didn't know what underlay social interactions.

During high school, he was arrested at least twice on suspicion of burglary and auto theft. When he reached age 18, the details of the incidents were expunged from his record, which is customary in Washington.


Reply Wed 8 Jan, 2020 11:40 pm
If this guy was not good looking, you would think he was a creep. Because that what he is.

He keeps badgering you in front of his friends and touches you without permission. Think about it.
Reply Thu 9 Jan, 2020 09:40 pm
Thanks at lot for your comment, it was real constructive Wink))
Yeah I agree with you, he's definitely not a good guy, I was just ''blinded'' by his attractiveness I guess. Well I knew all along he wasn't a real respectful person, but I felt idk I guess I was flattered? Anyways, he is immature, just like you say and he definitely did that to impress his friends as well, yes.
Yeah, the nudes pics thing definitely makes me disrespect him like thanks for reminding me haha.
Yeah, about Ted Bundy, I didn't know all these facts so wow, real constructive like I've said. I hope to never encounter someone like him and I hope you don't either. The part where he picks through trash barrels in search of pictures of naked women is just so creepy, but being his aunt must have been even much more horrid.
So yeah, anyways, thanks and I'm not interested in that guy anymore, it really was like.. on the spot. Have a nice day Wink
Reply Thu 9 Jan, 2020 09:45 pm
Yeah, that's very true, you totally got the point here. I really shouldn't think it's fine cause he's handsome. And yes, I thought about it and because some comments like yours were real helpful, I definitely think I should try to avoid him by now. Thanks at lot anyway and have a nice day Wink
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Borat Sister
Reply Thu 9 Jan, 2020 09:47 pm
You are experiencing lust at first sight, not love.

He touched your hair without your permission and made you feel uncomfortable?

What kind of boundaries are these?

Lust passes. Learning to behave in a respectful way towards other humans? Sometimes not learned in a human lifetime.

You’re going to feel a lot of sexual stirring in your life...you have a brain as well as hormones. Use it. The signs this guy is giving off are really concerning
Reply Sat 11 Jan, 2020 11:46 am
@Borat Sister,
I see, looks like you've experienced at lot haha.
Anyways, thanks a lot for this explanation.
It does make sense, lust at first sight because he IS my type. But I agree, he is a total douche who doesn't know how to respect people so I really will try my best to avoid him (maybe not like ''avoid'', but keep some distance). So, yeah it was real helpful thanks haha, have a nice day!
Borat Sister
Reply Sat 11 Jan, 2020 04:01 pm
Wishing you well in your life and loves
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