Perhaps as a first step, you ought to check with sexually active married women you know and inquire as to whether they, or some of them, also fantasize during sex. You'd be mistaken if you presume this doesn't happen. Getting feedback from women should help you sort this out.
Personally I like to get her to dress up as a prison officer so she can watch me slop out.
Sat 7 Dec, 2019 06:18 pm
At other times does she eschew the outfit?
Sat 7 Dec, 2019 06:31 pm
The whisper is that you're really Linda Lovelorn Deep Moot Advice to the Abject.
Consultant extraordinaire on what men think and why they do stuff.
I could tell you but I'd want my pound of flesh.
Mon 16 Dec, 2019 08:29 am
Extreme fear of rejection, many have very personal and strange fantasys, For example I m a true vorephile meaning I actually wanted to be swallowed whole and slowly digested by a pretty girl, But many guys have extreme fear of rejection cause theuy have no idea how they will respond or tell, Many time they will ask you silly questions to see how you will respond to judge rather it is safe to ask depending on how you reply, This is also one of the main reasons guys seek out other girls
I just figure you should just come right out and ask. I asked my girlfriend if she would mind if I fantasize about my wife when we're doin' . . . stuff. She just laughed, which I took as her acceptance of the idea.