Help! Great, Nice Guy - Labeled a Player! What to Do???

Don't try so hard

extra medium- Obviously, you are sending out some "vibes" that makes women perceive you as a player. Think about how you relate with women.

Stand back, and observe your behavior, as if you were looking at a stranger. What impression would YOU get of yourself? Once you figure that out, then you need to learn to modify those behaviors, so that you project a more realistic image of yourself to others.

To be honest, I have the same problem. But i guess in my case it is true... <sigh>

Good luck extra medium !

I assume you are really attentive and smiley and nice all the time.This could be misread as being a player.
Then again the ladies may be thinking 'my god he is so nice, he's too good to be true' which makes them weary, calling you a player may be a trick to see how you react, also so they can buy time to try to see if youreally are a player.

Dont be so smiley/nice/attentive.
If they say hello to you , dont dazzle them with your pearly whites, give them a half hearted smile.Basically act like an uncaring normal bloke, they will soon come running.

They just dont really know you yet. Takes one from the west to know one from the west.

I really don't care anymore, due to advice above. I'm an uncaring bloke...