Africanus wrote:sorry, didn't answer joes question at all ..
nicknames are common especially for parents. its not an islamic thing, just arab cultural.
so if i had a son called Haitham, my friends might call me
Abu Haitham, a) to acknowledge that i am a father and b) to acknowledge that i am no longer a youth but am now a full man.
the names stick and people who meet you afterwards might only know you by this name.
my late grandmother was called um jima'a (mother of jima'a). i don't actually know her real name.
This is what I am asking about, not what the names mean, but how are the nicknames decided upon, and what makes them stick. It seems to be a common thing for a Arabic man to have at least two names, his formal birth name and then the name by which he is best known.
I may have to start remembering to write down examples.
Joe(I had a friend named Sonny, but that wasn't his name)Name