Are there any signs when a man is trying to hid his feelings?

But he DOES have feelings! They are sexual only.

Stop the sex with him and see how long he hangs around.

Nobody here can answer your question. People are all different, just because I'm a man doesn't mean I know how all men think. It doesn't work like that.

How long do you intend doing this? You keep asking basically the same question over and over again, only to get the same answer.

Things aren't going to change, and he's not going to change. You can either put up or leave, but you won't do that. You'll stick with him, constantly moaning about how he is and asking us what to do only to get the same response.

I think it will end when he finds someone else.

we both have found someone else. Told you over and over just like you said I ask same question you should know we've known each other nearly 20 yrs I got married even after that so of coarse not only he I have met someone. I actually was seeing someone when we reconnected

If you've found someone else why are you still worrying about him? Some ex lovers can stay friends, others can't.

I don't know about you Izzy, but I'm getting a headache.