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Mon 30 May, 2005 09:45 pm
O.K. So my Husband wants a divorce but we are still having a sexual relationship. We have been living apart for about a month and have filled out the papers just not filed yet. If he wants a divorce so bad why are we still sleeping together??
sex. familiarity. comfort. laziness.
Why are you sleeping with him?
Probably for the same reasons eoe has mentioned.
Welcome to A2K.
Rekindling physical passion is quite common in separated couples.
Do you have any close emotional moments? Companionable moments?
Ask yourself, is he just using you for sex--and to prove that he can get sex from you? The World of the Formerly Married is frightening for both men and women.
Having his cake and eating it too.
Or having the cake and pounding away at it too, not necessarily eating.
I broked up with this one chickie once, and all the way up until we seperated our belongings and moved to seperate places we kept sleeping togethers. Why? Because it's fulfillment without using up a turn!
The fact that he is still willing to take advantage of you, should clue you in to why 'YOU' should want a divorce!
[unless of course, you are taking 'advantage' of him - hence 'screw him!' - er, 'figuratively'.]
Why buy the cow when you can still get the milk.