I am a married woman having an affair with a married man. It has been 2 years now. I love to shower him with expensive gifts and spoil him because I love him a lot ! But, my birthday has come and gone, and I get nothing! I was very hurt ! Am I being too materialistic?
You are being screwed by a person who cheats his way through life.
Okay. nuff said.
Joe(I feel for you, babe, but facts is facts.)Nation
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Noddy24
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Fri 27 May, 2005 06:51 pm
What's his excuse? He forgot? He's too busy? His wife would notice money missing? Presents aren't all that important?
No flowers? No candy? No birthday card? Did he take you out for dinner?
Your lover is cheap--and you're being used.
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Lash
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Fri 27 May, 2005 06:51 pm
You shouldn't expect anything from him.
Your relationship demeans you.
I hope you'll get out of it, and find a legitimate, healthy relationship.
Wish the best for you.
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Aurora Dark
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Fri 27 May, 2005 07:52 pm
Don't have affairs with married men.
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Lash
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Fri 27 May, 2005 08:06 pm
Geez.
I'm picking up on a pattern here.
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msolga
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Fri 27 May, 2005 08:13 pm
To put it a bit more politely, looneybird, your married lover is obviously not as generous nor as thoughtful toward you as you are toward him.
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dyslexia
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Fri 27 May, 2005 08:30 pm
well I meant to get her a little something but really it just sorta slipped my mind and when I finally remmebered I was busy with the lady next door and her husband was due home any minute and well I just forgot again in the rush. sorry baby you know I love, meant it!
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msolga
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Fri 27 May, 2005 08:38 pm
Sure you do, sure!
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CodeBorg
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Fri 27 May, 2005 08:59 pm
Mmmf. Every married woman I've been involved with
. . . nemind. We only talk about husbands here.
He (note the masculine pronoun) He is a very . . . bad, evil person.
Yes.
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ehBeth
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Fri 27 May, 2005 09:05 pm
It's about the gifts, CBorg.
Sheesh.
Everyone knows that the first birthday without a gift, it's over.
Sorry, but I think it's kinda funny.
Wonder what he does with all the lovely gifts he gets from his married girlfriend. Does he tell his wife where he got the treats?
It's from Goodwill, sweetie. Stopped by on the home.
Yes, on my birthday.
It IS amazing what you can find there.
Reduce. Reuse. Recycle.
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msolga
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Fri 27 May, 2005 09:08 pm
I was just wondering, looneybird: Did your husband remember your birthday & give you a gift? It would have been truly tragic if BOTH of them forgot!
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LionTamerX
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Fri 27 May, 2005 09:13 pm
Hmm...
How does one explain a Jaguar in the driveway on a musician's salary...
And for that matter, what the hell IS a musician's salary?
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CodeBorg
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Fri 27 May, 2005 09:20 pm
Oops, sorry. . . . Searching for information on:
"etiquette among the unfaithful", and
"expectations/games that come along with gifts".
I am embarassed to say I haven't . . . I don't know. I just give stuff away whenever.
Sorry.
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Noddy24
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Sat 28 May, 2005 12:40 pm
looneybird--
The way your question is worded you seem to think that adulterous affairs may have a special etiquette of gift-giving. Why?
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mikey5time
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Thu 2 Jun, 2005 09:19 am
Yeah. Did your husband forget your birthday too?
Because if he did 'forget', I'd like to shake his hand.
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Bella Dea
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Thu 2 Jun, 2005 09:54 am
I truly hope you are kidding about feeling upset that you didn't get anything.
Because to expect anything from this man is silly. He's married. You are the side, not the entree.
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patiodog
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Thu 2 Jun, 2005 09:59 am
Quote:
Wonder what he does with all the lovely gifts he gets from his married girlfriend. Does he tell his wife where he got the treats?
I wondered the same thing, eh. What does it say that the first thought is, "How does he cover that up?" Should run for office, I s'pose...
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