Shall I clear up the mystery?
I am chinese, so I can certainly understand sozobe's puzzlement. Green Witch's post bascially expresses my point - I dont' find chinese guys good looking but its not just the looks, nor the money - they are stuck up, try hards [wannabes] etc etc. At least the ones I have met anyway - but ^JB^ seems very nice and he's an exception. I am also surrounded by chinese people - both family and friends wise and I just think its good to get out of the circle and meet someone from another culture. Also, westerners are more mature than their chinese counterparts: more serious about life and are kind and honest, not to mention very very talented in the literature area - I prefer that area, than the science/maths.
Littlek - why cambridge? I look for qualfications in a guy - the more learned they are, the more I am attracted to them. I am a gemini - brains are our top priority, from what I have read, and I agree. Cambridge just happens to be my uni of choice - but I won't say no to harvard, oxford, yale, etc etc. :wink:
dag: Jackie chan ... maybe you are thinking back in his younger days? He was very good looking then. Now...have you seen his wrinkles?