Please Help! My wife is fed UP!!!!

Hi I have been married for 3 years now and together with my wife we have a 2 year old girl, I went out with my wife for 3 years before we got married so we have been together for a total of 6 years now, I love my wife very much and admit that lately I haven't paid that much attention to her as I have been stressed with my job and trying to provide as much as I can, the problem is about 3 months ago she told me I don't help her enough around the house so as soon as she told me this I actually did start to help, now 3 weeks and a half ago she tells me she is fed up and I do not give her the attention and love she needs, since she told me this I have been trying my hardest to make this up to her, I stopped taking work home and help more around the house but she still barely speaks to me. When I ask her how she feels because I see her a little upset she tells me she doesn't want to give me confidence as she claims she knows I am going to go back to how I was before. I really want to keep her and am trying my hardest but I don't know what else to do. We are currently getting proffesional help but when we get home she is still able to turn the whole thing around on me and tells me. I am so confused, just yesterday she gave me a peck on the cheek than a couple hours later I asked her something and she just blew up at me, I try to hold her hand and she doesn't let me, she doesn't let me get close to her. Please help me as I love this woman with my life and will do anything to not lose her. so any type of feedback would be helpful.

Thanks