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Thu 19 May, 2005 01:56 am
I have had problems with BF in the past about teen porn. I'm 35, he's 37. Is it so wrong to check his computer? I have found that he does still look at it.
There are two issues here. IMO, it is not your right to delve into his personal business.
On the other hand, now that you know he is sexually gratified by looking at teen girls, what do YOU want to do about it? I would be very leery of a 37 year old man, who becomes excited by looking at teen porn.
He may be simply indulging in fantasy, but the next question is why he is turned on by girls? If it were me, I would discuss this with him, and possibly rethink the relationship. It is NOT normal for mature men to lust obsessively after nubile adolescents. Do you know for sure that he has never acted out on his fantasies?
Quit snooping.
And listen to Phoenix.