Issues with some sex positions

Reply Fri 7 Jun, 2019 03:40 pm
Hello all I'm new to this, hoping for some tips and advice.

I'm 21 male. only been having sex for past few months with my girlfriend. So I am inexperienced. I really seem to have problems trying to have sex when on top, missionary etc. I struggle to get my penis to enter the vagina properly, and whenever it is in and I try and push it in I find it hard and then lose my erection. I am 5 inches so I know this is considered a bit small so I'm not sure if my size is causing this problem but I don't have any issues when my girl is on top riding me, she has great stamina and can ride me for 20 mins or so.

I don't want it to seem as if she is doing all the work, really want to improve and worried she could lose interest! now with doggy position again I have problems with this a bit too. Only positive is at least sometimes I can **** in this position for few minutes but still that isn't good enough. I can't do it whilst kneeling on my knees as it is so uncomfortable so I have to do it in the standing up position, I do though sometimes have the problems with sometimes can't get my penis in properly and then losing erection straight away. I also always wear a condom when having sex just to clarify.

Has anyone else ever experienced any of these issues before? does anyone have any advise they can possibly give?

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Reply Fri 7 Jun, 2019 03:49 pm
A couple of comments.

1. I have found that communication is the most important part of sex. Talk to your partner. Find out what she thinks you are doing well, and what she would like. Tell her what you would like. If you are worried she could lose interest... talk about that.

2. Condoms make it more difficult to keep an erection. I am going to be irresponsibly honest (people may get upset but this is the truth). You have to weigh the risks with the benefits (and there are real risks), but many people ditch the condoms once they are in a stable monogamous relationship.

3. You don't have to be motionless when you are on the bottom. If this position works for you... experiment with thrusting with you on the bottom.

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Reply Fri 7 Jun, 2019 03:55 pm
One other piece of advice....

Learn to give good oral sex. Do it often, do it eagerly, and get feedback on what she likes and doesn't like. This one skill will take away any issues about your "performance". I recommend the book "She comes First" if you want to learn how to give oral sex.

Of course, you should also be receiving good oral sex. This is one of the best ways I have found to get a lasting erection.
Reply Fri 7 Jun, 2019 04:42 pm
yo i cant wait for the day i get to engage in this.... Very Happy
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Reply Sat 8 Jun, 2019 07:56 am
First,speak with your G.
Find some information in the internet.
Find some other ways to be on top.
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