males also can get shattered. When I was a teen, I broke up with my boyfriend and he cried and begged me not to --- it can hurt no matter who you are.
Unfortunately this is part of growing up into adulthood - it is not easy by any means, but if it gives you any sort of comfort you will get stronger as a result.
And as suggested reach out to get help. There is alot of people in good position to provide help - seeing you are a teen, it is likely you have counselors at your school? Most high schools now have an adjustment counselor or something like that - a counselor that helps with making friends, bullying, social issues rather than a guidance counselor that helps with academics. Reach out - they are very helpful.