Male hormones vs. female emotions.

I have accused my husband of what I call "old man sex" - that is sex when a man first wakes up and all things are a go - no matter how old a guy is. In fact, I can tell what time it is based on this event (5 AM-6AM is peak at our house). He trys to defend himself by saying it was my sexy ass pressed against his hip that got him going, but personally I think it's just his morning hormonal high. Ok, maybe if I wasn't available he would take care of himself and just as happily go about his day, but I like to think I make it special. I don't feel used, if that's what you are asking.

Women can have these hormonal highs too. I prefer to be seduced into sex, but sometimes my ovaries decide they are up for another round of (futile due to modern science) reproduction and I jump him, few preliminaries necessary.

I think intellect plays a big part for both men and women. Women do have more emotional needs than a man, and a smart man will learn how to use that to his advantage. A man who knows how to make a woman feel attractive, respected and safe will never have to sleep alone,

I'll have to cloak my morning advances with some sweet talking then - if I can get her to wake up, that is... Thanks for your comments - very useful for me, since my marriage needs some attention (as well as my libido...).

Possibly a matter of discrepancies in your circadian rhythms.