Eva wrote:But I think first and foremost, a child should be taught that freely giving their life to Christ is the most important decision he or she will ever make...and should never be taken lightly. Second, the child should know at least the basics about the life they're committing to, or else the act of baptism will have no lasting meaning to them.
Eva this is perfect... Iamb going to have to use some of this when we talk to her..
I want her to know, I was born into a Catholic family and went thru the process of baptism as a baby, then first communion at 9 yrs old (i had to go to sunday school for 2 yrs) and then confirmation at 15... I tried hard to live up to my parents and the "churches" expectations but I always felt a little empty inside when it came to faith. I believe what I learned in the Catholic church and still do but, I feel a peace within me at Calvary Chapel that I can't explain.
I want her baptism to have and give meaning to her life, I want it to be a memorable day of a story she will always want to share.
We plan on talking with her this Fri, Mr. O (after cooling off) agreed Han should have discussed it with one of her parents before committing to a date and time.. We are not going to discourage her from it but rather give her whatever information she needs and answer any questions to help her better understand her decision.. After that then it's up to her.
I know this child and once someone explains things to her she rethinks her decision, sometimes she sticks to it but most of the time all she need is information.. I think it was a spur of the moment thing. Of course it didn't help that the other kids in her Sunday school were volunteering too. She is a smart kid, but just like all kids she made an "emotional decision" with out all the facts.